Hello ladies,
I received an annoying email from one of my ex DD’s. He decided to pull the kids from me at the beginning of March. I had been taking care of the kids full time for 4 years. He and his wife share 50/50 custody of their kids and are currently going through a terrible custody battle. His wife chose to keep the kids with me on her days with the kids. They are only with me one day a week one week and 2 days a week the next week. I lost a big part of my income when they left. He must feel that I have taken sides with her because he has been cold towards me on the few occasions I have seen him. When the kids left and started the new daycare I continued to send the DD text messages and updates in a group text with his ex. One day I got a text from his new wife asking me to stop communications with him because of a restraining order his ex wife took out against him so I completely stopped texting updates and pictures. I should add he rarely responded to any of my pictures or updates to begin with. Then I received this email from him last night:
“Please provide me with daily reports and pictures of son and daughter dating back to March 4, 2019. I also would appreciate any updates regarding the children's health.
KinderCare provides daily reports to “mom” therefore, my request is reasonable.”
I spoke to his wife and kindercare only gives her a report when she picks them up the one or 2 days a week and she doesn’t get any pictures at all. How should I respond to his demanding email? I feel I owe him nothing and he doesn’t pay me anymore.
Thanks for any advice!
I received an annoying email from one of my ex DD’s. He decided to pull the kids from me at the beginning of March. I had been taking care of the kids full time for 4 years. He and his wife share 50/50 custody of their kids and are currently going through a terrible custody battle. His wife chose to keep the kids with me on her days with the kids. They are only with me one day a week one week and 2 days a week the next week. I lost a big part of my income when they left. He must feel that I have taken sides with her because he has been cold towards me on the few occasions I have seen him. When the kids left and started the new daycare I continued to send the DD text messages and updates in a group text with his ex. One day I got a text from his new wife asking me to stop communications with him because of a restraining order his ex wife took out against him so I completely stopped texting updates and pictures. I should add he rarely responded to any of my pictures or updates to begin with. Then I received this email from him last night:
“Please provide me with daily reports and pictures of son and daughter dating back to March 4, 2019. I also would appreciate any updates regarding the children's health.
KinderCare provides daily reports to “mom” therefore, my request is reasonable.”
I spoke to his wife and kindercare only gives her a report when she picks them up the one or 2 days a week and she doesn’t get any pictures at all. How should I respond to his demanding email? I feel I owe him nothing and he doesn’t pay me anymore.
Thanks for any advice!
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