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  • hgonzalez
    Daycare.com Member
    • Dec 2012
    • 189

    So Glad They Are Gone

    I had a family give me notice that they were leaving and then decided not to send the kids back at all. They paid their two weeks, collected their belongings and left. You would think I would be upset, but I am not.
    The funny thing is, I am so happy since they left. The kids were my two biggest challenges and my group is so much happier without them. The toddler was probably the worst behaved toddler I have ever had here, really aggressive and screamed half the day. The older child talked about killing the other kids here and pretended to shoot them, and me.
    The parents acted all nicey-nice but made little passive aggressive comments or actions that were really petty. They gradually picked up later and later, never mentioned any concerns to me about my care, just up and left.
    I feel like I did my other daycare kids an injustice by keeping them as long as I did. We all feel so much better now and I am feeling so much more relaxed and patient with the kids. Sometimes an unexpected change is a great change!
  • Rockgirl
    Daycare.com Member
    • May 2013
    • 2204

    #2
    I’m betting it’s much more peaceful now!

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    • Josiegirl
      Daycare.com Member
      • Jun 2013
      • 10834

      #3
      Sometimes things have a way of working themselves out! Glad they left and you've got that peaceful feeling.

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      • springv
        Daycare.com Member
        • Sep 2017
        • 468

        #4
        Happy dance

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        • e.j.
          Daycare.com Member
          • Dec 2010
          • 3738

          #5
          Enjoy the calm! Hopefully you'll be able to fill their spots with better clients.

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          • BumbleBee
            Daycare.com Member
            • Jun 2012
            • 2380

            #6
            I felt the same way when one of my more challenging kids went to school in another district.

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            • WBee
              Daycare.com Member
              • Dec 2014
              • 127

              #7
              SO very happy for you! Been there....Now you can breathe easier. Congrats! Make sure you send them a thank you note. LOL

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              • Blackcat31
                • Oct 2010
                • 36124

                #8
                Sometimes we don't see how tough a situation was until it's past us. Glad you will enjoy your days from now on!

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                • Mom2Two
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Jan 2015
                  • 1855

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Blackcat31
                  Sometimes we don't see how tough a situation was until it's past us. Glad you will enjoy your days from now on!
                  So true.

                  I hope you enjoy your new, happier daycare OP.

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                  • AmyKidsCo
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Mar 2013
                    • 3786

                    #10
                    Been there, done that! I totally agree that sometimes you don't realize how stressful a family is until they leave.

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