This is DCB's 2nd week at my house, he's almost 5 months old. After mom went back to work, Grandma started taking care of him, so I'm his first provider other than Grandma, grandma couldn't handle 5 days a week anymore, so I have him 4 days and she has him 1. Which is nice for me to have a day to run errands, etc w/ my kids when he's not here. He's my only DCK aside from my 4. My oldest is in kindergarten so she's only here 4-5 with him. My other kids are 4, 2 and 5 months. My 4 year old is very self-sufficient for 4, so other than preparing meals for him he pretty much plays and does his own thing all day long. DCB is use to being held all of the time, dad warned me of this the first day at drop-off. I can't get him to sleep more than 20 minutes unless I hold him or he's in the swing. I try and place him in the pack n play and within 10 minutes he's awake and screaming. He'll play on the floor for a bit and in the exersaucer for a while. But if I get up and walk away he cries, if I put him down he cries, if I'm trying to give DD (5 mos) her bottle, he cries because I'm not holding him. He's cried much of the morning and finally fell asleep, in my arms of course. I know the minute I go lay him down he'll be awake again. Grandma is on vacation for 2 weeks so that should help. I can't and I won't sit and hold him all day. Thankfully DD is a very easy going baby and will just hang out playing with her toys on the floor while I try and take care of DCB, but I feel like she gets the short end of the stick and I don't like that. Because I can't always help her right away when she needs something. When he wakes up after being laying down by himself for 10 minutes, I go in, calm him down, give him his pacifier and shut the door, and he continues to cry until I pick him up. Ialways make sure he's had all of his needs met, make sure he's dry and fed. I play with him, but the minute I walk away he cries. I can't even as much as unload the dishwasher during naptime because he will only nap 20 min when the other kids nap. I know this is only his second week and it'll take some adjustment for him and I both, but the crying all the time is hard to listen to.
Any suggestions?
Thanks in advance.
Any suggestions?
Thanks in advance.
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