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  • WBee
    Daycare.com Member
    • Dec 2014
    • 127

    Vomiting-Not Sick? Opinions plz

    I have a dcb who, last Thursday vomited here. He was fine here yesterday but vomited again just after drop-off this a.m. His Mom has also been vomiting on and off for a couple of weeks now but husband is fine. Moms Dr. is referring her to a specialist. Now dcb went to the Dr. today and his Dr. is also referring him to a GI specialist. Mom wants to bring him in tomorrow. Dr. states he"doesn't appear" to have anything contagious but my rule is it is "my call" whether or not he comes back. Not the Drs. My issue is #1 that I can't keep cleaning up vomit here, which I informed Mom of (who is very nice btw) and #2, what could be causing such a thing?
  • storybookending
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jan 2017
    • 1484

    #2
    I have a young cousin who had this and they never did diagnose her with anything. She’s 6 now and it still happens occasionally.

    My concern here is that it’s not just the child but also the mom.

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    • CountryRoads
      Daycare.com Member
      • Nov 2018
      • 678

      #3
      This would be a sanitation issue for me. That stinks for that family if it is nothing contagious, but I would not be happy cleaning up puke all the time. Yuck!

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      • e.j.
        Daycare.com Member
        • Dec 2010
        • 3738

        #4
        Originally posted by WBee
        I have a dcb who, last Thursday vomited here. He was fine here yesterday but vomited again just after drop-off this a.m. His Mom has also been vomiting on and off for a couple of weeks now but husband is fine. Moms Dr. is referring her to a specialist. Now dcb went to the Dr. today and his Dr. is also referring him to a GI specialist. Mom wants to bring him in tomorrow. Dr. states he"doesn't appear" to have anything contagious but my rule is it is "my call" whether or not he comes back. Not the Drs. My issue is #1 that I can't keep cleaning up vomit here, which I informed Mom of (who is very nice btw) and #2, what could be causing such a thing?
        Maybe they have a shared food allergy or gastroparesis which isn't considered hereditary but can run in families? I'd be glad they were getting it checked though. How old is dcb? For me, it would depend on how often and how much he vomited. Is there any rhyme or reason to it...like it always happens right after he eats or is it hit or miss and could happen any time? Is he old enough to be taught to grab a bowl or run to the bathroom or is he too young? Those would be factors in my decision to let him return. I don't blame you for not wanting to clean up vomit on daily basis, though. I wouldn't want to do that!

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        • Unregistered

          #5
          You should not even begin to feel like it is your job to clean up after him. I would exclude.

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          • Cat Herder
            Advanced Daycare.com Member
            • Dec 2010
            • 13744

            #6
            Do they have a carbon monoxide detector in their home? Does she leave the car in the garage running to warm up in the morning?
            - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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            • Jupadia
              Daycare.com Member
              • Nov 2016
              • 836

              #7
              It could be any number if reasons, I was talking to a friend today who's 3 almost 4 year old just started morning care in preschool progom in September. Rhe child has vomited every day since starting due to what mom says is anxiety. Personally there is no way I would have kept a kid that long who vomited. More then once would be enough for me.

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              • Cat Herder
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • Dec 2010
                • 13744

                #8
                Originally posted by Jupadia
                It could be any number if reasons, I was talking to a friend today who's 3 almost 4 year old just started morning care in preschool progom in September. Rhe child has vomited every day since starting due to what mom says is anxiety. Personally there is no way I would have kept a kid that long who vomited. More then once would be enough for me.
                The last two cases of preschool age, daily, "anxiety" vomiting I had were actually caused by a daily jug of Strawberry Quik and chocolate milk (respectively) on an empty stomach during the car ride here.
                - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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                • WBee
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Dec 2014
                  • 127

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Cat Herder
                  Do they have a carbon monoxide detector in their home? Does she leave the car in the garage running to warm up in the morning?
                  I asked her to check with others for symptoms in her home as she lives in an apartment bldg. It's so odd.

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                  • e.j.
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Dec 2010
                    • 3738

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Cat Herder
                    Do they have a carbon monoxide detector in their home? Does she leave the car in the garage running to warm up in the morning?
                    I was thinking carbon monoxide poisoning, too, but thought, "No; Dad would probably be sick, too." I never gave any thought to the fact that she might be warming the car up after dcd left for work! I had an elderly uncle who used to warm his car up in the garage. He and my aunt frequently felt sick but never made the connection until one of their kids asked him if he was warming his car up without opening the garage door. Sure enough that was the problem in their case.

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                    • WBee
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Dec 2014
                      • 127

                      #11
                      Originally posted by e.j.
                      Maybe they have a shared food allergy or gastroparesis which isn't considered hereditary but can run in families? I'd be glad they were getting it checked though. How old is dcb? For me, it would depend on how often and how much he vomited. Is there any rhyme or reason to it...like it always happens right after he eats or is it hit or miss and could happen any time? Is he old enough to be taught to grab a bowl or run to the bathroom or is he too young? Those would be factors in my decision to let him return. I don't blame you for not wanting to clean up vomit on daily basis, though. I wouldn't want to do that!
                      He is 4 and has been with me for a couple of years now-no issues like this. Both he and Mom have just started having this issue within the last few weeks. He vomited once last week here, once on the weekend with Grandpa and then today. He was able to "sav a huge mess" from happening today but of course it still needed sanitizing all over my bathroom. I asked her to keep him home tomorrow even though the Dr. sent the "ok for daycare" note. Love those! Even the note states "he doesn't APPEAR to be ill so he is okay to go to daycare. " Surrrrre…….Glad Drs. decide who I have in my home and when. LOL

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                      • Ariana
                        Advanced Daycare.com Member
                        • Jun 2011
                        • 8969

                        #12
                        I have had this happen and so has my daughter, we are both sensitive to gluten/wheat. My daughter just vomitted a few nights aho because she had too much gluten that day. We used to be fine with it and now this or diarrhea/nausea.

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                        • Ariana
                          Advanced Daycare.com Member
                          • Jun 2011
                          • 8969

                          #13
                          Originally posted by WBee
                          He is 4 and has been with me for a couple of years now-no issues like this. Both he and Mom have just started having this issue within the last few weeks. He vomited once last week here, once on the weekend with Grandpa and then today. He was able to "sav a huge mess" from happening today but of course it still needed sanitizing all over my bathroom. I asked her to keep him home tomorrow even though the Dr. sent the "ok for daycare" note. Love those! Even the note states "he doesn't APPEAR to be ill so he is okay to go to daycare. " Surrrrre…….Glad Drs. decide who I have in my home and when. LOL
                          My daughter just got diagnosed with strep on Sunday and the DR told me she was ok to go to school THE NEXT DAY!!! I looked at her with and said “she is still contagious so I don’t think so”. Makes you wonder how many parents she has said this to and how many sicknesses could habe been avoided.

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                          • sahm1225
                            Advanced Daycare.com Member
                            • Jun 2010
                            • 2060

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Ariana
                            My daughter just got diagnosed with strep on Sunday and the DR told me she was ok to go to school THE NEXT DAY!!! I looked at her with and said “she is still contagious so I don’t think so”. Makes you wonder how many parents she has said this to and how many sicknesses could habe been avoided.
                            The nurse assistant at urgent care (after diagnosing my dd with hfm) said that since the sores were in her mouth and no where else, that she could go to school & daycare since they won’t notice
                            Changed her tune real quick when I asked for a manager

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                            • Cat Herder
                              Advanced Daycare.com Member
                              • Dec 2010
                              • 13744

                              #15
                              Doctors notes. :: They are the worst clients. I have way too many as personal family friends and live to bust their blls about it. The slackiest of slacker daycare parents. They are so desensitized and triage oriented.

                              I swear they are worse than mechanics and their own vehicles.

                              Of course, not all, just all of mine.
                              - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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