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  • Lissa Kristine
    Daycare.com Member
    • Nov 2017
    • 57

    Reasons You Question How Well The State Knows Kids...

    Ever look at state regulations and question whether your state knows ANYTHING about kids.

    For example, in NJ, you can have 6 18 month to 2 year olds per teacher. At 2-1/2, it jumps up to a 1:10 ratio.

    Have these people ever SEEN a 2-1/2 year old?!

    Sometimes, state regulations baffle me.

    Children under 1 year old are not allowed to have any blankets while sleeping. The ONLY thing they're allowed to have is a sleep sack. I get it. I really do.

    Problem is, making rules based on AGE in this case makes absolutely NO sense. In one daycare, you can have a child who is 10 months old who is already walking around, and one who is 14 months who hasn't taken his first steps yet. Yet, the 14 month old is allowed a blanket in his crib because he's over the age of one. Yet the 10 month old, who is physically more "advanced" than his friend who is 4 months his senior is not allowed a blanket.

    Anyone else notice any state regulations that really don't make sense?
  • Michael
    Founder & Owner-Daycare.com
    • Aug 2007
    • 7950

    #2
    Welcome to the forum. I'll upgrade your status.

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    • flying_babyb
      Daycare.com Member
      • Apr 2017
      • 992

      #3
      Yea, I get it! we can have 14 kids between 2-3 in our classroom. So I get a bunch of twos and a few 3s so I end up with 9 kids by myself. Does state not realize that two year old are hard little beings who need lots of attention? Heck, 1 to 4 with infants is hard enough!

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      • Lissa Kristine
        Daycare.com Member
        • Nov 2017
        • 57

        #4
        It's not even a case of "have they ever worked with toddlers before?" It's more of a case of "have they ever SEEN a toddler before?"

        The general consensus is, no, they have not.

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        • Josiegirl
          Daycare.com Member
          • Jun 2013
          • 10834

          #5
          Two things
          1. You're preaching to the choir here.
          2. You're talking about the state.
          A lot, ok probably most, of the state rule makers have no clue about children, what they need, what's developmentally appropriate; they're only going by what they think or what new-age beliefs are at the moment.
          Just look at the mess in most every state with quality child care and what they're all pushing to achieve that label.
          Look at all the rules they're pushing onto teachers with standardized testing, etc. Look at all the ridiculous new rules with the Food Program.
          Any place the state is involved, you have to shake your head in disbelief and ask why.

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          • Blackcat31
            • Oct 2010
            • 36124

            #6
            I agree but it costs money to decipher one situation from another.

            Like group care, that kind of individual “attention” isn’t feasible.

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            • Mike
              starting daycare someday
              • Jan 2014
              • 2507

              #7
              A perfect example of how little is put towards making rules is how one state or province says you can watch 8 infants or toddlers, while another says the limit is 2. What's the difference? Are DCPs in one state or province better than the ones in the other? :: There are so many differences between different areas, and even among counties. Wouldn't it make more sense for them all to get together, figure out what it really should be, then make minor variations if they want.
              Children are little angels, even when they are little devils.
              They are also our future.

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              • BumbleBee
                Daycare.com Member
                • Jun 2012
                • 2380

                #8
                It's not just daycare that the state is clueless about, I have many daycare families who are farmers (fruit, veggies, pigs, cows, etc) and they say the same thing about their state rules. The general consensus amongst them is the state has never set foot in a farm. Ever.

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                • midaycare
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Jan 2014
                  • 5658

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Mike
                  Are DCPs in one state or province better than the ones in the other?
                  I'm not sure of the validity of the study, but I heard that dcps in MI are the best...hahahahaha

                  Yeah the different ratios are crazy.

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                  • nanglgrl
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Jul 2012
                    • 1700

                    #10
                    The emergency plans I have to post by every exit. None of these children can read, I don't have employees. I added plans for volcanic eruption and apocalypse on mine years ago and no one noticed.

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                    • DaveA
                      Daycare.com Member and Bladesmith
                      • Jul 2014
                      • 4245

                      #11
                      Originally posted by nanglgrl
                      The emergency plans I have to post by every exit. None of these children can read, I don't have employees. I added plans for volcanic eruption and apocalypse on mine years ago and no one noticed.
                      Oh I may have to do that and see how long before someone notices. ::

                      I have 3 exits within 15 feet of the classroom. All of them directly visible when in the classroom. I had to make an post an evac plan complete with map

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                      • midaycare
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Jan 2014
                        • 5658

                        #12
                        Originally posted by nanglgrl
                        The emergency plans I have to post by every exit. None of these children can read, I don't have employees. I added plans for volcanic eruption and apocalypse on mine years ago and no one noticed.
                        :: I am so adding zombie apocalypse now.

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                        • Lissa Kristine
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Nov 2017
                          • 57

                          #13
                          Originally posted by DaveA
                          Oh I may have to do that and see how long before someone notices. ::

                          I have 3 exits within 15 feet of the classroom. All of them directly visible when in the classroom. I had to make an post an evac plan complete with map
                          Evacuation plans make me laugh.

                          If the fire is in the front of the building, use the middle and back exits.

                          If the fire is in the back of the building, use the front and middle exits.

                          If the fire is in the middle of the building, use the front and back exits.

                          UM... DUH!!!!!!!

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                          • Mom2Two
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Jan 2015
                            • 1855

                            #14
                            It might not be your imagination. In our state (Utah), our rules were made by a bunch of law makers. Literally...our daycare rules were made by lawyers. It has taken a long time to slowly get them changed. Our head admin (dude who signs our licenses) told us that even getting one little word changed is a major epic accomplishment with how much process it has to go through.

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                            • hwichlaz
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • May 2013
                              • 2064

                              #15
                              They want the 2 yo on a cot an not in a playpen for nap. yet he has CP and doesn't sit up on his own yet, let alone walk or climb. He's safer in the playpen. He can't nap on the cot because he rolls off, so I end up putting a blanket or mat on the floor for him, and he rolls halfway across the room until he gets stuck under a piece of furniture.

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