Getting Under My Skin

[Mike]

You said she's your only kid right now. If there were others, I would say let her go, but if she's the only one, it does give you time to see what you can do, if anything, and if you want to try.

I agree with what CityGarden said:

Use this as motivation to get more families and then term once you can.

I wouldn't want to deal with a mother like that, so if you don't want to give up on the child, see what you can do, but be ready to term as soon as you can afford to.

Maybe it'll help if you give her a little say in what is done, or give her a bit of responsibility. I've dealt with a few bratty kids and it almost always helped when they were given a bit of control or responsibility.

[Blackcat31]

Its not that I dont like the child.I dont like her behavior. Mom came to pick her up today and we where talking the kid looks up at her mother and says" you need to stop talking now" all mom said to her was " you need to wait your turn". The behavior is a result of mom not the the kid. As I look at the all the issues the child has I feel bad for her. But I cant fix what mom allows.

Mom allows the child to behave badly
You allow the mom to behave badly

If you do not want to participate, terminate.

[Pestle]

Re-ASSESS, Pestle. Don't re-asses.