Who To Term?

[Ariana]

I understand where you both are coming from. However, with this dcm lying constantly about her job or lack thereof and just not being honest with me, I think it's only fair. What if I plan for an April may termination and she gives me notice next Friday or just never comes back. I don't trust her anymore.

This is why you probably should term. The relationship has just deteriorated and unless you can learn to detach from her BS and collect a paycheck she will continue to ruin your day. If you want to term based on her being untrustworthy then term her no matter what is happening in April...or find a replacement and then term right away.

[lovemydaycare0912]

This is why you probably should term. The relationship has just deteriorated and unless you can learn to detach from her BS and collect a paycheck she will continue to ruin your day. If you want to term based on her being untrustworthy then term her no matter what is happening in April...or find a replacement and then term right away.

I don't mind collecting a paycheck until she goes. 95% of her payment comes from the state. She only pays $35 a month. I think she is lying because she knows I refuse to lie to the state and continue caring for her child if she is no longer working since it happened once before and she was forced to get another job so she wouldn't lose her assistance. I think she's back in school though but not 100%. So I will look for another replacement around the time she plans to go and go from there. I'm sure if I start advertising, I'll get more calls. I always seem to get calls around this time.

[lovemydaycare0912]

New family came by today and it went so great! Left me 2 checks. 1 for today with full 2 week payment. and 1 postdated for 3/24 to pay for his first week starting 3/27! I am so happy this went so well. On to new beginnings!