So Stressed! I Have NEVER Had Anything EVER Happen To A Child In My Care!

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  • mickey2
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Dec 2010
    • 334

    So Stressed! I Have NEVER Had Anything EVER Happen To A Child In My Care!

    I had to call a dcm today to come and get her child immediately and take her to hospital RIGHT NOW!! I have never in over 25 years ever had a situation where I felt a baby needed to be seen by a doctor immediately!

    This dcg has been with me since she was 7 months old. She is now 18 months old so she has been with me for over a year. Great mom and dad, sweet beautiful little girl but OMG she gave me close to a heart attack today. I was so scared!

    Nap time is from 1-3 30. I put all 6 children to bed. The 3 babies who sleep in the same room all went to sleep right away. At 3pm these 3 were all awake and I began to get them up. One by one I got them up, changed them and got them into their highchairs for their snacks. All was well. Each child had a snack. Whole wheat vegetable crackers which I ran out of so I also gave each child a 1/2 of a peanut butter Nature Valley granola bar and a sippy cup with grape juice. All children ate their snacks, drank their juice as they watched a baby Einstein video. All was still well. After snacks were eaten I began to remove cups and highchair trays washed the children's hands and faces. All was still well. One by one I started to take the babies out of their highchairs so that they could go and play. When I got to 18 month old daycare girl her face and chin were so red & swollen and covered with what I am almost positive were hives, her right eye was blood red and watering. All this in less than one minute! I don't know what happened. Some type of allergic reaction I know! But to what? She has had everything that I gave them today for snack. I have given her the crackers before as well as the same peanut butter bars before. The only thing a bit different was the juice. She has had blueberries at home and both mom and dad said she eats them by the fist full.

    I could not believe what I was looking at! I was so worried and upset. She only had this reaction on her face. My dh and I checked her whole body which was fine. I never changed laundry detergent or fabric softener so can't be the sheets/blankets/facecloth I used to wash her with. Maybe a dye or something in the juice? I just feel horrible. Dad picked her up at about 410 about a 1/2 hour after I called mom. Mom called me tonight at 6 30 and baby and dad ares till at the hospital and have to stay for another 2 hours. They think it is an allergic reaction as well.

    I guess I just needed to tell someone about this as I am so worried and still very unnerved by this right now. It was just so scary and I have never experienced anything that ever felt like this before.

    It is nice to be able to come here for support. Thanks everyone.
    Last edited by Michael; 01-27-2011, 04:49 PM.
  • momatheart

    #2
    HOW SCAREY FOR YOU! It does sound like an allergic reaction. I would have probably called 911. Just because of the fast reaction and for fear of something else happening.

    And of course the mom and dad.

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    • Michael
      Founder & Owner-Daycare.com
      • Aug 2007
      • 7947

      #3
      Wow, that would be a scare. Maybe a combination of the juice and peanut butter. I was even wondering of a bug bite. As long as the airway is not swelled otherwise I would have called 911 for an ambulance. Let us know what the doctors said was the cause or if it was an anaphylactic reaction.

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      • SilverSabre25
        Senior Member
        • Aug 2010
        • 7585

        #4
        Yikes, that is scary! I wonder if she got some of something (the PB would be my chief suspect, but who knows?) in her eye and it caused the reaction. I had a dcg who got banana in her eye and it caused a similar reaction (and she's had bananas TONS of times with no obvious reaction). Hopefully she's fine, and it was some weird freak occurrence!
        Hee hee! Look, I have a signature!

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        • littlemonkeys
          Daycare.com Member
          • Jan 2011
          • 194

          #5
          Oh my gosh, that is SO scary! I also agree that it may have been an allergic reaction. I am so sorry this happened under your watch.

          Please keep us posted! (((hugs)))

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          • missnikki
            Advanced Daycare.com Member
            • Mar 2010
            • 1033

            #6
            Originally posted by SilverSabre25
            Yikes, that is scary! I wonder if she got some of something (the PB would be my chief suspect, but who knows?) in her eye and it caused the reaction. I had a dcg who got banana in her eye and it caused a similar reaction (and she's had bananas TONS of times with no obvious reaction). Hopefully she's fine, and it was some weird freak occurrence!
            OH MY. My own eyeballs are deathly allergic to bananas! I've only known one other person like that. If I eat/touch/look at/ think about a banana, my eyes both swell up like grapefruits. Had plenty in my day, just became allergic out of thin air at the age of 23.

            As to the little girl, I hope she's ok. You did the right thing calling, and I am so sorry you had that scare. The parents must be glad to have her with someone who knew what to do.

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            • countrymom
              Daycare.com Member
              • Aug 2010
              • 4874

              #7
              wow, that is scary. Its weird that it would only be on her face. Maybe it was the juice, what kind was it.

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              • MARSTELAC
                Daycare.com Member
                • Sep 2010
                • 278

                #8
                Hugs to you and that little one. Sure sounds like bad allergic reaction. So glad they took her in...cannot imagine how scared you were. Keep up the good work and care of our future. Let us know what happens and how she turns out. Try to rest and have a decent evening....

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                • mickey2
                  Advanced Daycare.com Member
                  • Dec 2010
                  • 334

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Michael
                  Wow, that would be a scare. Maybe a combination of the juice and peanut butter. I was even wondering of a bug bite. As long as the airway is not swelled otherwise I would have called 911 for an ambulance. Let us know what the doctors said was the cause or if it was an anaphylactic reaction.

                  No problems at all with her airways. She was completely fine except for the horrible reaction to her face. She was happy, still wanting to be playing and everything. Any indication of anything serious I would have called 911 and had them meet me on route because I would have already been on my way to the emergency department.

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                  • mickey2
                    Advanced Daycare.com Member
                    • Dec 2010
                    • 334

                    #10
                    Originally posted by SilverSabre25
                    Yikes, that is scary! I wonder if she got some of something (the PB would be my chief suspect, but who knows?) in her eye and it caused the reaction. I had a dcg who got banana in her eye and it caused a similar reaction (and she's had bananas TONS of times with no obvious reaction). Hopefully she's fine, and it was some weird freak occurrence!
                    I never thought of her possibly getting it into her eye. She does rub her eyes a lot.

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                    • mickey2
                      Advanced Daycare.com Member
                      • Dec 2010
                      • 334

                      #11
                      Originally posted by littlemonkeys
                      Oh my gosh, that is SO scary! I also agree that it may have been an allergic reaction. I am so sorry this happened under your watch.

                      Please keep us posted! (((hugs)))

                      I am waiting for mom to call me back. Last I heard from mom at around 6 30 pm was that daddy and baby were still at hospital waiting for an extra 2 hours to make sure baby was okay.

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                      • mickey2
                        Advanced Daycare.com Member
                        • Dec 2010
                        • 334

                        #12
                        Originally posted by countrymom
                        wow, that is scary. Its weird that it would only be on her face. Maybe it was the juice, what kind was it.

                        It was a juice I actually NEVER buy! My 7 year old son and I went grocery shopping and he saw this Fruitopia Blueberry juice and wanted me to buy it so I did. I am going to stick to apple and orange juice and milk from now on for my dcks. I have never been so scared in my life!

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                        • mickey2
                          Advanced Daycare.com Member
                          • Dec 2010
                          • 334

                          #13
                          Originally posted by MARSTELAC
                          Hugs to you and that little one. Sure sounds like bad allergic reaction. So glad they took her in...cannot imagine how scared you were. Keep up the good work and care of our future. Let us know what happens and how she turns out. Try to rest and have a decent evening....
                          Thanks MARSTELAC, I will rest when I hear back from mom. I am having such a hard time with this tonight. I know in my heart that I did nothing wrong but still feel like somehow I may have but not knowingly

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                          • countrymom
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Aug 2010
                            • 4874

                            #14
                            I hate fruitopia, my odd is allergic to yellow dye and one day my dad bought her some because she was thirst and all she did was throw up like crazy, I will bet you it has to do with the juice. I buy peach juice too, the kids love it, and No Frills has it on sale for a 1.00 the 2 L Fruite one.

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                            • Michael
                              Founder & Owner-Daycare.com
                              • Aug 2007
                              • 7947

                              #15
                              Originally posted by Children First
                              Thanks MARSTELAC, I will rest when I hear back from mom. I am having such a hard time with this tonight. I know in my heart that I did nothing wrong but still feel like somehow I may have but not knowingly
                              I see you are answering a lot of posts one by one. Suggest you use the multi quote function just to the right of the Quote button. it looks like this (") Click on it in each post you want to reply to. then click on the the big "Post Reply". It will contain aff of the post quotes that you can comment on in just one reply.

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