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  • debbiedoeszip
    Daycare.com Member
    • Mar 2014
    • 412

    A Couple of Things

    I have a couple of questions.

    First one with a bit of backstory: So, I had an interview with a mom who needs daycare starting mid-November. She wants to go with my daycare but I told her that I couldn't hold the spot for more than a few weeks. I agreed to hold the spot until the beginning of October, when she would start bringing her (by then) 13mo one day per week until mid-November when he would start coming 2-4 days per week. I still haven't met the baby, but we have set up a visit for next Wednesday. I mistakenly booked an interview with a family looking for daycare for their 11 month old. They need daycare starting next Tuesday (not sure if they need FT or PT). I can't take both babies. How awful of a person would I be if I let the first parent (who really doesn't need daycare until mid-Nov) down by reneging (and not holding the spot like I said I would)?

    2. I have a seriously picky 18mo in my daycare right now. I make most of each meal/snack from scratch, and I've been told I should make them as low sodium as possible. I'm wondering if I've gone too far though as they are really super bland. How much "seasoning" is ok for kids 1-4 yo (the age group I care for)? I don't want them to suffer from sodium poisoning, but I also want the food to taste like...something? LOL

    3. I had to call mom today to pickup after nap. I started DCG18mo sleeping on a crib mattress on the floor for nap (previous it was a pnp). Nap went well, and after she was playfully flopping herself facedown onto the mattress. After the third flop, she came up holding the side of her neck (or just behind her ear). I ended the flopping and stood the mattress up against the wall.

    She only cried when I took the mattress away and by the time we exited the nap room she was no longer crying. We sat reading on the couch in the playroom, where she was still holding her neck/ear and was becoming increasingly distraught. I called mom when she became inconsolable (bawling), and I became worried that something was really wrong. She had been really fussy the whole morning, but she woke up from nap happy. I suggested pulled muscle to mom, and mom thought maybe ear infection (no fever but she had been pretty fussy)

    Anyway, mom left with dcg saying she was going to Emerg so a doctor could check her over (really glad of that). If mom doesn't call me or email me, I'd like to contact her and find out how dcg is doing. Since we have been communicating primarily by email (only one phone call), is it appropriate for me to email her to ask her? I hate (understatement) using the phone, but I don't want to come off as...weird?
  • Leigh
    Daycare.com Member
    • Apr 2013
    • 3814

    #2
    1. I'd tell mom that I'm holding a spot for that she can start paying full price or you'll give the spot to someone who will.

    2. Kids can have any seasoning you can.

    3. Do what you're comfortable with. Maybe you could text if you don't want to call?

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    • finsup
      Daycare.com Member
      • Jul 2013
      • 1025

      #3
      Originally posted by debbiedoeszip
      I have a couple of questions.

      First one with a bit of backstory: So, I had an interview with a mom who needs daycare starting mid-November. She wants to go with my daycare but I told her that I couldn't hold the spot for more than a few weeks. I agreed to hold the spot until the beginning of October, when she would start bringing her (by then) 13mo one day per week until mid-November when he would start coming 2-4 days per week. I still haven't met the baby, but we have set up a visit for next Wednesday. I mistakenly booked an interview with a family looking for daycare for their 11 month old. They need daycare starting next Tuesday (not sure if they need FT or PT). I can't take both babies. How awful of a person would I be if I let the first parent (who really doesn't need daycare until mid-Nov) down by reneging (and not holding the spot like I said I would)?

      when I interview, I always tell people the spot is open until it's paid for. I would take the income now over waiting. You could give the first family the offer to begin paying for the spot on such and such a date or they loose it. It stinks, but I've been burned by holding a spot and honestly, I'd rather not do it at all .

      2. I have a seriously picky 18mo in my daycare right now. I make most of each meal/snack from scratch, and I've been told I should make them as low sodium as possible. I'm wondering if I've gone too far though as they are really super bland. How much "seasoning" is ok for kids 1-4 yo (the age group I care for)? I don't want them to suffer from sodium poisoning, but I also want the food to taste like...something? LOL
      Low sodium isn't bad! I hardly use any salt with my kiddos actually (if it were just me eating I'd load it with salt because i love it but yeah so not healthy ). You can use garlic powder, onion powder, so. Any spices to add flavor to things. Definitely worth googling for suggestions. My kiddos have tried so many different flavors thanks to omitting salt. Spices won't hurt them though, especially when many a little goes a long way

      3. I had to call mom today to pickup after nap. I started DCG18mo sleeping on a crib mattress on the floor for nap (previous it was a pnp). Nap went well, and after she was playfully flopping herself facedown onto the mattress. After the third flop, she came up holding the side of her neck (or just behind her ear). I ended the flopping and stood the mattress up against the wall.

      She only cried when I took the mattress away and by the time we exited the nap room she was no longer crying. We sat reading on the couch in the playroom, where she was still holding her neck/ear and was becoming increasingly distraught. I called mom when she became inconsolable (bawling), and I became worried that something was really wrong. She had been really fussy the whole morning, but she woke up from nap happy. I suggested pulled muscle to mom, and mom thought maybe ear infection (no fever but she had been pretty fussy)

      Anyway, mom left with dcg saying she was going to Emerg so a doctor could check her over (really glad of that). If mom doesn't call me or email me, I'd like to contact her and find out how dcg is doing. Since we have been communicating primarily by email (only one phone call), is it appropriate for me to email her to ask her? I hate (understatement) using the phone, but I don't want to come off as...weird?
      I would personally send a text asking how dcg is. Just use whatever way you typically communicate to check in. I know my families appreciate me checking in about their kiddos, and they do it for mine whenever they know something has happened.

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      • WBee
        Daycare.com Member
        • Dec 2014
        • 127

        #4
        I held a spot for a client I'd had ( the two year old of) for more than a year throughout her 2nd pregnancy. The week before baby was due I got my termination notice from her. She decided to go to an illegal home daycare to save $$$. Now I'm out lots of $$$ and could not fill both of her spots all summer. Don't save for anyone! Try to be the nice guy...get burned.

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        • Play Care
          Daycare.com Member
          • Dec 2012
          • 6642

          #5
          Like others I no longer hold spots and I'm very honest with interviewing clients about it. I've been burned way too many times (not getting paperwork to me, going with care closer to their home/work, etc) I need my spots filled with paying clients.

          I would also tell mom that things have changed and give her the option of paying for the spot or losing it.

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          • Alwaysgreener
            Home Child Care Provider
            • Oct 2013
            • 2519

            #6
            Meet the second family and the first child before you make any decisions. avoid saying something you can't take back. You never know what is going to happen you could get another opening.

            Season the food as normal.

            Id send a text sO she can respond when she has time

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