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  • Blackcat31
    • Oct 2010
    • 36124

    Pretty Sad

    It's really kind of sad for me to think that this teacher's letter home goes viral. As if she's some kind of super hero to come up with such a novel idea.

    Stuff we, as providers know is important and have pushed parents to do since day one.

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  • JackandJill
    Daycare.com Member
    • Mar 2016
    • 416

    #2
    I had the same thought. All these parents that come through looking for their 3 year old to be in a school like setting. Seriously, these poor kids are getting the short end of the stick!

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    • Cat Herder
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • Dec 2010
      • 13744

      #3
      If it is a true story, I have to applaud that she had the 's to put it in writing, send it home and place her job on the line for it.

      I am sure she will face some consequences we may never hear of.

      Again, if not a staged prop/agenda.
      - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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      • MunchkinWrangler
        New Daycare.com Member
        • Nov 2015
        • 777

        #4
        I know right?! Just like the 18 month old leaving my daycare for a center because they have teachers and classes.

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        • Cat Herder
          Advanced Daycare.com Member
          • Dec 2010
          • 13744

          #5
          Originally posted by MunchkinWrangler
          I know right?! Just like the 18 month old leaving my daycare for a center because they have teachers and classes.
          I am writing a lesson plan for a 6 month old as we speak. My kids college tuition will be due again soon... so I write.

          That is why I believe it is staged. Public school Teachers have no autonomy, not even us *teachers*.
          - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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          • DaveA
            Daycare.com Member and Bladesmith
            • Jul 2014
            • 4245

            #6
            Originally posted by Cat Herder
            I am sure she will face some consequences we may never hear of.
            My first thought when I read it was "Well she's #*(^'d at work!" Even if her school doesn't do anything official to her she's going to be persona non grata with some coworkers/ supervisors. I imagine it's going to be a little chilly for her in the break room.

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            • daycarediva
              Daycare.com Member
              • Jul 2012
              • 11698

              #7
              Originally posted by DaveA
              My first thought when I read it was "Well she's #*(^'d at work!" Even if her school doesn't do anything official to her she's going to be persona non grata with some coworkers/ supervisors. I imagine it's going to be a little chilly for her in the break room.
              That's what I thought, too!

              We send home a letter with our kids to their elementary teachers that we opt out of homework and what we DO instead (outside, pursue own interests, read, sports practices, music lessons, family dinners, and early bedtimes). ALL teachers have loved it and have agreed with us, but their jobs are on the line if they were to stop following the status quo.

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              • EntropyControlSpecialist
                Embracing the chaos.
                • Mar 2012
                • 7466

                #8
                I wondered if it were real, too.

                Even if it isn't, however, the amount of positive attention it is receiving can only benefit the kids.

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                • Play Care
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Dec 2012
                  • 6642

                  #9
                  Originally posted by DaveA
                  My first thought when I read it was "Well she's #*(^'d at work!" Even if her school doesn't do anything official to her she's going to be persona non grata with some coworkers/ supervisors. I imagine it's going to be a little chilly for her in the break room.
                  My DH (high school teacher) avoids the break room like the plague. It's referred to as the "hen house"

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                  • Controlled Chaos
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Jun 2014
                    • 2108

                    #10
                    I have been grateful so far that my DDs homework has been 10-15 min of either reading, working on site words or being read to. She's only in 1st grade, but I worry already about her evenings being stolen. She came home so exhausted yesterday she cried while eating her snack. When I asked her if anything had happened, or if she was sad she just said "I'm not used to learning so long. It made me s tired. I'll get better at it though." Broke my heart.

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                    • MunchkinWrangler
                      New Daycare.com Member
                      • Nov 2015
                      • 777

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Cat Herder
                      I am writing a lesson plan for a 6 month old as we speak. My kids college tuition will be due again soon... so I write.

                      That is why I believe it is staged. Public school Teachers have no autonomy, not even us *teachers*.
                      Oh, I get it! Just writing infant activities for licensing and explaining in detail what those are can be really mind boggling!happyface

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                      • Controlled Chaos
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Jun 2014
                        • 2108

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Play Care
                        My DH (high school teacher) avoids the break room like the plague. It's referred to as the "hen house"
                        :: ! When I taught, several teachers gave up gossip during lent and the break room was SILENT for 40 days

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                        • DaveA
                          Daycare.com Member and Bladesmith
                          • Jul 2014
                          • 4245

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Controlled Chaos
                          :: ! When I taught, several teachers gave up gossip during lent and the break room was SILENT for 40 days
                          Originally posted by Play Care
                          My DH (high school teacher) avoids the break room like the plague. It's referred to as the "hen house"
                          ::
                          I can relate- it's no better in center break rooms. I got pulled into more conversations I wanted no part of. It was also a great place for the more passive/aggressive coworkers to be unbelievably obnoxious. Dealt with that a few times. I had one woman who wanted me out of "their space". She made sure to make any conversation when I was in there was either explicit or about "female" problems. The last straw for me was when she handed me a Victoria's Secret catalog and asked me which one she should get for her husband. I just opened it up, pointed to one, and said "Lose 20 pounds and he'd like that one!" Then I just went back to eating. The whole room went silent staring at me like She still hated my guts, but at least she knocked it off around me after that.

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                          • DaveA
                            Daycare.com Member and Bladesmith
                            • Jul 2014
                            • 4245

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Cat Herder
                            I am writing a lesson plan for a 6 month old as we speak.
                            One center I worked at had a toddler teacher who did every art project for- I mean................"helped" each child complete the art. So every thing was done neatly and just looked so perfectly cute. Then they'd hit my room and DCKs would do it themselves. I had DCPs worried that their child was regressing because everything was being done so "messy". Took every bit of tact I had not to completely throw toddler teacher under the bus.

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                            • CalCare
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Jul 2015
                              • 665

                              #15
                              The school where I worked before I had my own children had that type of homework policy- no homework except unfinished classwork. I always though that was fantastic- and I just knew I would send my own children to that school one day. When I had my children, I realized A. That school was way too expensive for me, and B. There were way too many other things I didn't like about the school (saying the Lord's Prayer every morning at a secular school!?). So, we are at another school. Homework at this school is optional, but by second grade, I started my son on 20 minutes worth each day. I wish it wasn't assigned at all because even as "optional", I feel it's expected and that I am being judged if I don't make it happen. :/ Even that 20 minutes seems like a waste of time and a source of unnecessarily conflict. And he is almost nine now. These kinders and even preschools (!) With homework blow my mind.

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