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  • Boymom
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jan 2016
    • 354

    Just Pull Your Kids Then!!!

    I think I posted about this a few months ago about how a dcm CONTINUOUSLY asks if I'm putting my 4 year old in preschool. I told her no because I'm going to teach him here. He already knows his entire alphabet, can almost count to 100, knows how to write his name, knows every shape, every color, etc etc etc. And I'm working with him on his reading. I can't afford to put him in preschool anyways!

    But she's asking I think because she wants to put her son in preschool. Then do it already!!! I told her the last few times she asked me that I'm NOT putting my son in preschool. I don't know why she keeps asking me. She just sent me a text asking me again. What should I do?
  • Cat Herder
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Dec 2010
    • 13744

    #2
    Text back. "I already answered you. Stop."
    - Unless otherwise stated, all my posts are personal opinion and worth what you paid for them.

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    • laundrymom
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • Nov 2010
      • 4177

      #3
      "My son doesn't need preschool. he will be starting kindergarten next year"

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      • Boymom
        Daycare.com Member
        • Jan 2016
        • 354

        #4
        I've actually considered terming them anyways, so maybe this is the perfect opportunity haha!

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        • Unregistered

          #5
          "I've decided not to do preschool." Sounds like she wants a definite "no" from you.

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          • Play Care
            Daycare.com Member
            • Dec 2012
            • 6642

            #6
            Originally posted by Unregistered
            "I've decided not to do preschool." Sounds like she wants a definite "no" from you.
            This. I think I posted before about this being her way of seeing if you are going to transport.

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            • Boymom
              Daycare.com Member
              • Jan 2016
              • 354

              #7
              Originally posted by Play Care
              This. I think I posted before about this being her way of seeing if you are going to transport.
              I didn't think about the transport thing, but they already drop-off/pick-up his older sibling at school, so I don't think they would need that. Also, when she asks me and I say I'm not putting my son in preschool, she says, "well, we need dcb to learn his numbers because he's skipping them." I work with him every day!

              I just wish she would stop hinting around about it.

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              • childcaremom
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • May 2013
                • 2955

                #8
                Originally posted by Boymom
                I didn't think about the transport thing, but they already drop-off/pick-up his older sibling at school, so I don't think they would need that. Also, when she asks me and I say I'm not putting my son in preschool, she says, "well, we need dcb to learn his numbers because he's skipping them." I work with him every day!

                I just wish she would stop hinting around about it.
                I'm sure he would love it if you counted with him at home, too, dcm!

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                • Play Care
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • Dec 2012
                  • 6642

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Boymom
                  I didn't think about the transport thing, but they already drop-off/pick-up his older sibling at school, so I don't think they would need that. Also, when she asks me and I say I'm not putting my son in preschool, she says, "well, we need dcb to learn his numbers because he's skipping them." I work with him every day!

                  I just wish she would stop hinting around about it.
                  I might say "dcm, it sounds as if you really want DCB in more of a school environment. I completely understand, if my son wasn't doing as well with my homeschooling I might persue that as well. I totally understand if you need to give me your two week notice. I know school is starting soon so you may want to get on that now."

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                  • MommyMuffin
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Jun 2010
                    • 860

                    #10
                    Just let it roll off your back! And then when she asks say..."I would really miss dcb but I've heard xyz is a great preschool." And if you offer preschool..."if you are looking for a different kind of environment you could try xyz.."

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                    • EntropyControlSpecialist
                      Embracing the chaos.
                      • Mar 2012
                      • 7466

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Play Care
                      I might say "dcm, it sounds as if you really want DCB in more of a school environment. I completely understand, if my son wasn't doing as well with my homeschooling I might persue that as well. I totally understand if you need to give me your two week notice. I know school is starting soon so you may want to get on that now."
                      Yes this is the route I'd take.

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                      • Alwaysgreener
                        Home Child Care Provider
                        • Oct 2013
                        • 2519

                        #12
                        Yes when I am asked about preschool for dd, my respond is always. "yes, I will be homeschooling her more" for some reason once I stopped saying no and started saying Yes, homeschool, the reaction I got changed.

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                        • Leigh
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Apr 2013
                          • 3814

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Boymom
                          I think I posted about this a few months ago about how a dcm CONTINUOUSLY asks if I'm putting my 4 year old in preschool. I told her no because I'm going to teach him here. He already knows his entire alphabet, can almost count to 100, knows how to write his name, knows every shape, every color, etc etc etc. And I'm working with him on his reading. I can't afford to put him in preschool anyways!

                          But she's asking I think because she wants to put her son in preschool. Then do it already!!! I told her the last few times she asked me that I'm NOT putting my son in preschool. I don't know why she keeps asking me. She just sent me a text asking me again. What should I do?
                          "No." They ask again? "No." NO NO NO. I wouldn't give any other answer.

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                          • MyAngels
                            Member
                            • Aug 2010
                            • 4217

                            #14
                            I'd ask her why she keeps asking you the same question over and over.

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