Older dcks are doing well as long as they all attend

[Josiegirl]

I have 3 dcks, ages, 7, 8, and 9. They do okay as long as they're all here. They have their moments but mostly ok. However, there are days and a couple weeks where it'll just be 1 or 2 here and I know what it will be like. That constant 'nothing to do', dragging heir feet and moping around as if their entire world revolved around their friend/s.
Any suggestions?
I will try to get them involved more with helping or entertaining the little ones but how engaged they'll want to be can be zero to very little at times.

[childcaremom]

Maybe not the answer you want.... but I let my own just figure it out.

It may take a while and a lot of complaining but they will find something to do. Boredom is a gift that I give my children daily. ::

Alternatively, you could have a little jar with written prompts inside. They can 'pick one' and do it.

If too much complaining happens: "You can find something to do or I can find you something to do." I have a LOT of chores that I need help with.

[Play Care]

I like the "bored" jar idea.
On the days I knew I'd only have one, I'd probably relax some of my electronic rules - maybe even allowing an afternoon movie.

[Josiegirl]

They have electronics time in the afternoon anyways, as long as they've earned it throughout the a.m. And I do have a 'bored jar'. I might have to whip that out today. Thanks for the reminder; we haven't had to use it since spring break and that's because they were so curious as to what was in there.