This is going to be long sorry!
Okay so today's last hour was stressful. DH had to leave to get his son and the kids were driving me crazy. Any who, one dcb is supposed to be picked up at 5:30 p.m. His parents are not together and they completely **** at communication. I know, not my problem, but it usually ends up being. I enforce mom, who is more soft spoken and is who we have on contract that she needs to communicate with dcd so they can be on the same page.
Today, I get a text from dcd saying he would be arriving at 545 due to traffic. I simply ask if he knew what the late fee was even though I wasn't going to charge him today since he is never late. Just wanted him to be aware for future reference since him and mom split pick ups. Long story short he wants to extend pickup until 6 now to give him time. DCB's contract begins at 8 so it is still within 10 hours. I was so stressed I told him that would be fine without thinking about it as long as dcm signs off on the change. After closing and thinking about it, I don't want to do that. Why keep dcb here later when dcm can get here by 430.
What I want to do is tell dcm she needs to be the only pickup person and leave it at 430pm. But then it isn't fair because my full-time charge is the same whether the child is here 30 hours or whether the child is here 50 hours.
Dcm doesn't really want to change the time because she says he should have enough time to get here in 30 minutes, but said if it's annoying him so much, she guesses she can.
Mehhhhhhhh why did they have to split up? It's annoying me. I don't want to have to communicate for mom. I don't want to have to deal with dad. Sorry I just need a woosah, my neighbors are driving me up the wall so I'm just really annoyed right now.
Okay so today's last hour was stressful. DH had to leave to get his son and the kids were driving me crazy. Any who, one dcb is supposed to be picked up at 5:30 p.m. His parents are not together and they completely **** at communication. I know, not my problem, but it usually ends up being. I enforce mom, who is more soft spoken and is who we have on contract that she needs to communicate with dcd so they can be on the same page.
Today, I get a text from dcd saying he would be arriving at 545 due to traffic. I simply ask if he knew what the late fee was even though I wasn't going to charge him today since he is never late. Just wanted him to be aware for future reference since him and mom split pick ups. Long story short he wants to extend pickup until 6 now to give him time. DCB's contract begins at 8 so it is still within 10 hours. I was so stressed I told him that would be fine without thinking about it as long as dcm signs off on the change. After closing and thinking about it, I don't want to do that. Why keep dcb here later when dcm can get here by 430.
What I want to do is tell dcm she needs to be the only pickup person and leave it at 430pm. But then it isn't fair because my full-time charge is the same whether the child is here 30 hours or whether the child is here 50 hours.
Dcm doesn't really want to change the time because she says he should have enough time to get here in 30 minutes, but said if it's annoying him so much, she guesses she can.
Mehhhhhhhh why did they have to split up? It's annoying me. I don't want to have to communicate for mom. I don't want to have to deal with dad. Sorry I just need a woosah, my neighbors are driving me up the wall so I'm just really annoyed right now.
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