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  • daycarediva
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jul 2012
    • 11698

    But My MOM Says...

    My MOM does/does NOT...

    My MOM says you're wrong...

    My MOM thinks...

    I don't give a flying patoot what your mom says/does/thinks.

    Learning about eggs- what animals come from eggs. My MOM SAYS YOU'RE WRONG AND DOLPHINS DO COME FROM EGGS. ( :: )

    My MOM says I DO NOT have to share my share toy.

    My MOM does NOT do that (insert everything here).

    I'm just rinsing and repeating that we do things differently here. But MAN I'm ready to pull my hair out.
  • Blackcat31
    • Oct 2010
    • 36124

    #2
    Originally posted by daycarediva
    My MOM does/does NOT...

    My MOM says you're wrong...

    My MOM thinks...

    I don't give a flying patoot what your mom says/does/thinks.

    Learning about eggs- what animals come from eggs. My MOM SAYS YOU'RE WRONG AND DOLPHINS DO COME FROM EGGS. ( :: )

    My MOM says I DO NOT have to share my share toy.

    My MOM does NOT do that (insert everything here).

    I'm just rinsing and repeating that we do things differently here. But MAN I'm ready to pull my hair out.
    How old is she/he?

    I would not allow that phrase anymore. period.

    Treat it like a negative behavior.

    Anytime the child begins "My mom says......" immediately stop them and redirect.

    I totally understand..I had one of those kids too. :hug:

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    • nannyde
      All powerful, all knowing daycare whisperer
      • Mar 2010
      • 7320

      #3
      You're mom is silly. Go play toys.

      If that doesn't work go to:

      You're mom says you need to go night night.
      Then

      You're mom night night.
      Then

      Night night

      It's just a term of engagement. He's getting you to DO him. Answer gently first. If that doesn't work change it to something he doesn't want to do. Have your response lessen in words as you wean him off your attention.
      http://www.amazon.com/Daycare-Whispe...=doing+daycare

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      • daycarediva
        Daycare.com Member
        • Jul 2012
        • 11698

        #4
        3y2m

        It is really grating! My dcb said "Your mom is not so smart." when she made the dolphin comment. ::

        Mom also knows the wording to our songs and fingerplays better. She knows how to cut grapes better. She knows EVERYTHING.

        It's awful to say (and take it with a grain of salt because I'm frustrated and it is NEVER ENDING), but Mom is a SAHM. If she was so wonderful, the kid wouldn't be here full time.

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        • Rockgirl
          Daycare.com Member
          • May 2013
          • 2204

          #5
          Originally posted by daycarediva
          3y2m

          It is really grating! My dcb said "Your mom is not so smart." when she made the dolphin comment. ::

          Mom also knows the wording to our songs and fingerplays better. She knows how to cut grapes better. She knows EVERYTHING.

          It's awful to say (and take it with a grain of salt because I'm frustrated and it is NEVER ENDING), but Mom is a SAHM. If she was so wonderful, the kid wouldn't be here full time.
          Lol!!

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          • auntymimi
            Daycare.com Member
            • Jul 2015
            • 262

            #6
            I have a 4 yo who was like that. The struggle is rea!

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            • Blackcat31
              • Oct 2010
              • 36124

              #7
              Originally posted by daycarediva
              but Mom is a SAHM. If she was so wonderful, the kid wouldn't be here full time.

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              • momofsix
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • Oct 2009
                • 1846

                #8
                Take heart in the fact that it will also go the other way for you. I've had numerous parents tell me they can't do anything "right" according to their child bc it's not the way I do it.
                I think it's just an attention getter and usually just try to ignore it.

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                • Rockgirl
                  Daycare.com Member
                  • May 2013
                  • 2204

                  #9
                  Originally posted by momofsix
                  Take heart in the fact that it will also go the other way for you. I've had numerous parents tell me they can't do anything "right" according to their child bc it's not the way I do it.
                  I think it's just an attention getter and usually just try to ignore it.
                  That is so true! A dcm told me that a few weeks after her ds started kindergarten, his teacher said he constantly said those things about me! "Ms D doesn't do it that way....Ms D says such & such" etc. I'm sure his teacher hated me!

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                  • NoMoreJuice!
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Jan 2014
                    • 715

                    #10
                    I really want to contribute something helpful here, but all my brain will come up with are Yo Mama jokes.

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                    • daycare
                      Advanced Daycare.com *********
                      • Feb 2011
                      • 16259

                      #11
                      I have one of those and I said, oh really well lets call mom and see what she has to say to ME about that!!

                      child changed her mind really quick...

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                      • midaycare
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Jan 2014
                        • 5658

                        #12
                        Originally posted by daycare
                        I have one of those and I said, oh really well lets call mom and see what she has to say to ME about that!!

                        child changed her mind really quick...
                        I've had pretend conversations with dcm's.

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                        • Unregistered

                          #13
                          I had a dcg one year that told her Kom I make soup better... o

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                          • Rockgirl
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • May 2013
                            • 2204

                            #14
                            Originally posted by Unregistered
                            I had a dcg one year that told her Kom I make soup better... o
                            Hahaha! A dcm called me and asked, "How do you cook your broccoli?"

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                            • Unregistered

                              #15
                              Sounds like the sort of thing I just say 'uh huh!' to. Haha

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