My Feelings were Hurt by DCD

[MissAnn]

Ugh......when they complain about how many hours THEY work!!!!! I think.....oh, you work part time compared to my hours!

[Laurel]

Dad made a comment to me implying that my job is easy and that is isn't really a job. That really rubbed me the wrong way. Now I know how he really feels about my purpose.

Do you all every get people who seem to not respect what you are doing as a legitimate job?

I work hard and I have to deal with your "spirited" child almost more than you do dad! Thank you!

Once when someone hinted that my business wasn't really a business I said "Well the IRS certainly considers it one." That pretty much shut him up.

I've found that most people say the opposite though. I've had many people say "I could never do what you do."

He's clueless, don't mind him.

[Laurel]

"It is easy. You should try it. The kids are delightful. The babies never cry. They eat well, play well, and sleep like babies at nap. The parents... well I thank the good Lord every day for them. They pay on time. Bring and pick up their kids on time. They NEVER bring them sick. They ALWAYS keep them home when they are sick. They dress them beautifully in clothing that fits and is easy for me. The kids are always perfectly clean.

It isn't really a job... it's a pleasure! You should quit your job and get a piece of my perfect job!"

That is a great comeback! ::

[Blackcat31]

It rarely if ever, bothers me.

It's all about perception. If DCD thinks you have an easy job than kudos to you for doing it so well that it "appears" easy to him.

The grass is always greener on the other side if you've never been on the other side.

The last time I heard a comment about how easy my job is, I simply replied "Well, it can't be that easy since you only work part time but your child is here full time."

[spedmommy4]

It rarely if ever, bothers me.

It's all about perception. If DCD thinks you have an easy job than kudos to you for doing it so well that it "appears" easy to him.

The grass is always greener on the other side if you've never been on the other side.

The last time I heard a comment about how easy my job is, I simply replied "Well, it can't be that easy since you only work part time but your child is here full time."

Lol BC. I have wanted to say something along those lines a few times. I might be too nice.

[MarinaVanessa]

I had this happen a couple of times ... one time stands out.

DCM says something like : "I envy you, you have it so easy and get to play all day. I wish I could do this [refering to daycare] and I didn't have to work"
ME: raised my eyebrows, 2 second pause and "BUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH" I literally broke out laughing almost to the point of tears
My husband walks in and asks what was so funny
ME: "She said I have it easy and she wishes she didn't have to work like me" chuckling
DH: "BUAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA" looks at her and says "You have NO idea" and walks away still laughing

She had a "What just happened" look on her face but I think she "got it', watching kids isn't the most difficult job in the world but it sure as hell isn't the easiest either ::

[Ariana]

I had a mom continually tell me during the interview that I had her "dream job" over and over and then in another breath said something like "i need to go back to work so I can use my brain". Yeah I never use my brain. Thanks mom.

I ended up terming the child because she was a mess so now I understand that mom actually wasn't using her brain at home

[littletots]

I started doing a weekly recap 1yr ago. Includes planner theme, pictures, description. My dcp all said they now realize how much i do with dck. Maybe your dcd just doesn't realize? Our stresser are different then working against deadlines, budgets, sales goals.

[AmyLeigh]

Anyone who is good at their job makes it look easy.

[Shell]

You guys are forgetting the sofa, soap operas, and chocolate bon bins.

I haven't been on here in a while, but this gave me a good laugh ::

[mamamanda]

My family are the ones who've given me the most issue with this. I always get the, "You are so intelligent. Why are you doing something so stressful when you could make a lot of money doing something else?" "You're called to do bigger things..." etc. I just reply with, "What could be bigger than caring for the next generation?" Or "Any job can be stressful, but I get to have the things that really matter to me. I spend time with my own kids, am home to prepare meals for my family, and am training the next generation to be kind and respectful individuals who care about something more than themselves." It frustrates me, but I know my reasons are valid so I let it go. Most of the time

[Ariana]

My family are the ones who've given me the most issue with this. I always get the, "You are so intelligent. Why are you doing something so stressful when you could make a lot of money doing something else?" "You're called to do bigger things..." etc. I just reply with, "What could be bigger than caring for the next generation?" Or "Any job can be stressful, but I get to have the things that really matter to me. I spend time with my own kids, am home to prepare meals for my family, and am training the next generation to be kind and respectful individuals who care about something more than themselves." It frustrates me, but I know my reasons are valid so I let it go. Most of the time

I know!!! since when is taking care of children not good enough?!! it's our stupid society that says anything that is considered "womans work" is demeaning. Nothing could be more important than what we do!!

[Unregistered]

When I first started hearing that yes I would get kinda mad and correct them and explain what I really do.now Im just use to it, I think its funny because the ones who barely work bring kids full time why? Cause they cant handle it. I feel like saying would u like to take over for a day.im sure most people would go crazy within a couple hours.I think daycare is more than a real job , with more work than regular job.