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  • SilverSabre25
    Senior Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 7585

    Similar names

    Finally landed a new daycare kid after months of searching! This is much, much needed.

    Unfortunately, her name is extremely similar to the name of another girl, and they're both two, to make it more complicated. They are both getting terribly confused and my tongue is tripping all over the place! We've Delilah (and call her Lilah) and Layla.

    What do you do in these situations?
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  • SilverSabre25
    Senior Member
    • Aug 2010
    • 7585

    #2
    And though 5 years ago I had a group that was: Ella, Ellie, Elliot, Eliza, Olivia (mine), and one day my niece Eliana came over. ...I don't remember the names being an issue then. Or if it was, I don't remember how I handled it. 5 years is a long time, apparently...
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    • LindseyA
      Daycare.com Member
      • Mar 2015
      • 201

      #3
      Lol! I currently have a Kal, Kali, and Callen! I trip up all the time! I will be checking back to see others advice as i'm in the same boat! Callen's parents always call him Callie Boy at home. Well now that we have Kali here, he gets really offended when people call him Callie Boy because he is NOT a girl! (like Kali is).

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      • Laurel
        Daycare.com Member
        • Mar 2013
        • 3218

        #4
        Originally posted by SilverSabre25
        Finally landed a new daycare kid after months of searching! This is much, much needed.

        Unfortunately, her name is extremely similar to the name of another girl, and they're both two, to make it more complicated. They are both getting terribly confused and my tongue is tripping all over the place! We've Delilah (and call her Lilah) and Layla.

        What do you do in these situations?
        I had two Katelyn's once but one mom said it was okay to call her Katie. Could you call them their first and middle name together like Lilah Jane or Layla Sue?

        Laurel

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        • Controlled Chaos
          Daycare.com Member
          • Jun 2014
          • 2108

          #5
          I LOVE the name Delilah! (not helpful, just knew you would want to know )

          I sometimes call the kids Mr. Sam or Ms. Sam, not sure if that would help? I have a lot of Js right now and get tripped up too. It doesn't help that they all are super white, blue eyes, get each others hand me downs - so then I get really confused :: i need diversity in my daycare bad

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          • daycarediva
            Daycare.com Member
            • Jul 2012
            • 11698

            #6
            I had three kids all with the same name. They ended up being nicknamed.

            Right now I have two kids with very similar names. They are boy/girl, so I just go with Mr. __ and Ms. ___. That helps.

            It's the twins I have enrolled that are throwing me. Mom dresses them alike. I've been doing their hair in the morning so I can tell them apart. The one with her hair UP is always one twin, and braids or down is the other. I tried painting their nails different colors but I can't see those across the yard. LOL!

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            • Josiegirl
              Daycare.com Member
              • Jun 2013
              • 10834

              #7
              Originally posted by daycarediva
              I had three kids all with the same name. They ended up being nicknamed.

              Right now I have two kids with very similar names. They are boy/girl, so I just go with Mr. __ and Ms. ___. That helps.

              It's the twins I have enrolled that are throwing me. Mom dresses them alike. I've been doing their hair in the morning so I can tell them apart. The one with her hair UP is always one twin, and braids or down is the other. I tried painting their nails different colors but I can't see those across the yard. LOL!
              I had 3 Andrews at the same time. IIRC, I called them Andrew(then the first initial of their last name). It was terribly confusing.
              And DCDiva, I'm currently trying to tell my 15 month old twins apart. So far, if not for 1 wearing an amber necklace, I'd have no clue. They've been coming about a month, sweet sweet tots.

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              • laundrymom
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • Nov 2010
                • 4177

                #8
                Originally posted by Josiegirl
                I had 3 Andrews at the same time. IIRC, I called them Andrew(then the first initial of their last name). It was terribly confusing.
                And DCDiva, I'm currently trying to tell my 15 month old twins apart. So far, if not for 1 wearing an amber necklace, I'd have no clue. They've been coming about a month, sweet sweet tots.

                I would use full names.

                I have had Rylee shae and riley joe. Both two. Both "instigators"

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                • Hunni Bee
                  False Sense Of Authority
                  • Feb 2011
                  • 2397

                  #9
                  I had two Ryan's last year. They were just Ryan B and Ryan M from jump. The kids all called them that, they wrote it on their papers, etc. Never was a issue.

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                  • midaycare
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Jan 2014
                    • 5658

                    #10
                    I have two with the same names but different spellings. I don't want to give out their names, so I will give an ex:
                    Jessica is "Jessica with a 'c'"
                    Jessika is Jessica with a 'k'.

                    The kids understand quickly. "Ms. Midaycare, Jessica with a 'c' pushed me!"

                    Works for us

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                    • Sunshine74
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Oct 2012
                      • 546

                      #11
                      Originally posted by midaycare
                      I have two with the same names but different spellings. I don't want to give out their names, so I will give an ex:
                      Jessica is "Jessica with a 'c'"
                      Jessika is Jessica with a 'k'.

                      The kids understand quickly. "Ms. Midaycare, Jessica with a 'c' pushed me!"

                      Works for us
                      We have a similar situation. We have (not their names, but the same situation) a Gwen and a Gwendolyn- who goes by Gwen and doesn't usually respond to Gwendolyn. Plus as soon as they hear the beginning of the name, both girls respond. It doesn't help that they are both 2. And one has a hyphenated last name, so I am not even sure which letter to go with if we were to go with a "Gwen A" "Gwen B" solution. I might try to go with the middle name, we did that when we had two Gianna's with the same last initial.

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                      • midaycare
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Jan 2014
                        • 5658

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Sunshine74
                        We have a similar situation. We have (not their names, but the same situation) a Gwen and a Gwendolyn- who goes by Gwen and doesn't usually respond to Gwendolyn. Plus as soon as they hear the beginning of the name, both girls respond. It doesn't help that they are both 2. And one has a hyphenated last name, so I am not even sure which letter to go with if we were to go with a "Gwen A" "Gwen B" solution. I might try to go with the middle name, we did that when we had two Gianna's with the same last initial.
                        I would definitely try middle names. My dck with same names are young 2's, so whatever you do, they will catch on! Kids are smart.

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                        • Rockgirl
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • May 2013
                          • 2204

                          #13
                          Every time I've had two kids with the same name (which I'm thinking is 3 times), the kids are the same age! Weird.

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                          • permanentvacation
                            Advanced Daycare.com Member
                            • Jun 2011
                            • 2461

                            #14
                            I've had the same situation a few times. I do one of two things. I start out simply over-pronouncing their names, stressing on the difference in sounds. I would say, "LAla and LIah" making sure to obviously stress the different vowel sounds in each name. If that didn't work, then I would start calling each of them by their first and last names. Or you could use their first name and first initial of their last name.

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                            • SilverSabre25
                              Senior Member
                              • Aug 2010
                              • 7585

                              #15
                              So I asked for both girls middle names last night and one set of parents seemed perplexed about it. Fortunately the middle names are both short, and different, . They glow really nicely and I'm getting used to saying the names with the middle name. But I like this approach. I'd do last initial but neither are letters that flow smoothly off the tongue with their names. I hope the middle names help! One if the girls keeps pointing at the other every time I say either name, and the other ostensibly has some hearing impairment (though I see no sign of this, so she must be doing okay)
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