Help With Reply to Ticked DCM I Just Termed

[midaycare]

YES!! I'd like to hear them! ::

Only because it DOES feel good to get them out and it's quite therapeutic too!

Dear dcm,

I'm so sorry you don't fit in my program because you coddled your child for her whole life. If she did well at her other daycare, you shouldn't have moved her. And I highly doubt she did well. And my dear, Spanish teacher dcm, when someone fails one of your tests, are you the problem, if everyone else is succeeding? I think not. It is no different in child care.

For your information dcm, I get anywhere up to 5 calls per day for child care. So I think I'm doing something right, with as little experience as you believe me to have. Oh, and the state also gave me the highest STAR rating within a 40 mile radius. But, that's not important, right? What's important is that YOU take some digs at me and try to make me feel stupid and uneducated even though I have more education than you and I've also taught. Beotch!

[Blackcat31]

Dear dcm,

I'm so sorry you don't fit in my program because you coddled your child for her whole life. If she did well at her other daycare, you shouldn't have moved her. And I highly doubt she did well. And my dear, Spanish teacher dcm, when someone fails one of your tests, are you the problem, if everyone else is succeeding? I think not. It is no different in child care.

For your information dcm, I get anywhere up to 5 calls per day for child care. So I think I'm doing something right, with as little experience as you believe me to have. Oh, and the state also gave me the highest STAR rating within a 40 mile radius. But, that's not important, right? What's important is that YOU take some digs at me and try to make me feel stupid and uneducated even though I have more education than you and I've also taught. Beotch!

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AWESOME!! I love it!!

Bet you feel better now don't you?

[Baby Beluga]

Dear dcm,

I'm so sorry you don't fit in my program because you coddled your child for her whole life. If she did well at her other daycare, you shouldn't have moved her. And I highly doubt she did well. And my dear, Spanish teacher dcm, when someone fails one of your tests, are you the problem, if everyone else is succeeding? I think not. It is no different in child care.

For your information dcm, I get anywhere up to 5 calls per day for child care. So I think I'm doing something right, with as little experience as you believe me to have. Oh, and the state also gave me the highest STAR rating within a 40 mile radius. But, that's not important, right? What's important is that YOU take some digs at me and try to make me feel stupid and uneducated even though I have more education than you and I've also taught. Beotch!

especially enjoyed the bold part

[midaycare]

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AWESOME!! I love it!!

Bet you feel better now don't you?

I really do feel better!

[midaycare]

Instead of being in a motorcycle gang, I feel like I'm in a daycare gang. And instead of beating people up, we send out bad vibes towards people.

[Josiegirl]

Instead of being in a motorcycle gang, I feel like I'm in a daycare gang. And instead of beating people up, we send out bad vibes towards people.

I feel like some of us probably are hiding voodoo dolls in our closets too. ::


I love how it ended up but sorry she put you through all that crap.

[childcaremom]

Instead of being in a motorcycle gang, I feel like I'm in a daycare gang.

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Love it!

[Thriftylady]

Instead of being in a motorcycle gang, I feel like I'm in a daycare gang. And instead of beating people up, we send out bad vibes towards people.

Hmm VROOM VROOM or SCREAM SCREAM. Ever feel like we picked the wrong gang? LOL. Although I can say from experience that motorcycles can be annoying just like parents, but it is usually when they won't start so you don't have to listen to them .

[Laurel]

What do you think was her point in mentioning that you are texting while caring for "so many other kids" comment was about?

I bet she is trying to pin the DCG's behavior on you as those statements say "she is fine everywhere else but with you so it must be you"

I would agree with her...text her back and don't mention the texting while other kids are in care comment (that was meant to get your goat in my opinion) and tell her what she wants to hear....

Text her back and say something like "DCM, I am so glad you mentioned her behavior while with another caregiver. That only further proves to me that I am not the right program to meet her needs as I have had no luck in trying any of the techniques I've been successful with in all my years of experience working with children. I think at this point, it would be best if you found another caregiver that can better meet DCG's needs. I am so glad you were able to have that other experience as it only further supports what I was already thinking. Thanks DCM! Let me know when you want to come by and get DCG's belongings"

That's how I'd move forward.

Whoo hoo, that's great!!!

Laurel

P.S. We need a clapping hands smilie. I am getting tired of this one. happyface Just saying....

[AmyKidsCo]

YES!! I'd like to hear them! ::

Only because it DOES feel good to get them out and it's quite therapeutic too!

Yup! I can't count how many nastygrams I've typed up then deleted.