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So a little background first...a few weeks ago one of my DCM's who is single told me that she was dating one of my brothers. They had met on a dating website and hooked up. Now I love this brother but there are MANY reasons he is still single and should remain so. This DCM is RIGHT up his alley...owns her home, has a good job, desperate to not be single and very sweet and trusting. He sees these women coming a mile away and gets everything he cans from them and splits. He has 6 kids by 3 different women and has been engaged like 7 times. Sooooo...she asked me what I thought and I told her that I love my brother but she should be very careful because he didn't have the best history. A few days later she asked me to babysit one evening which I have done for her before and I said yes and when she showed up to get DCB she was sobbing. Her and my brother had gotten into a big fight in the restaurant and he was a big jerk to her. The next day she got out of work early and came to get DCB and my SIL who REALLY dislikes my brother was here and she gave DCM the skinny on him. DCM told us that my brother didn't like that her and I were friendly and he wanted her to find a new provider. She said she would never do that and DCB was so happy here and etc, etc. I told her that it was obviously her choice but if she did pull DCB that would be it and she could not bring him back when her and my brother broke up because I was not going to go back and forth like that and it wasn't good for DCB. She swore it would never happen but I have been waiting for it ever since.
FF to this week...She keeps telling me that she has not seen or heard from my brother and it is probably for the best and etc, etc...On Monday DCB was whispering to another DCB and I hear "But don't tell Miss BKLSMUM" so of course I asked what was going on and he says "My Mom told me not to tell you" I told him he should not be talking about it here then and he said "I had a rap duel with your brother but my Mom said not to tell you because you would be mad at her." I told him not to worry about it and we went on with our day. I didn't say anything to DCM because if she wants to be stupid that is up to her but it does bother me that she is telling DCB to lie to me because I think that can lead to other lying and issues. When she picked up yesterday he asked her right in front of me if my brother was coming over again to help them with stuff and she looked very embarrassed but I didn't say anything and they left. I feel she will eventually pull him and that is sad because he has attachment issues and likes it here and has been here a couple of years now but I am not sure if I should have a talk with her...*sigh*...how bad does my luck have to be to end up in this situation? UGH!
FF to this week...She keeps telling me that she has not seen or heard from my brother and it is probably for the best and etc, etc...On Monday DCB was whispering to another DCB and I hear "But don't tell Miss BKLSMUM" so of course I asked what was going on and he says "My Mom told me not to tell you" I told him he should not be talking about it here then and he said "I had a rap duel with your brother but my Mom said not to tell you because you would be mad at her." I told him not to worry about it and we went on with our day. I didn't say anything to DCM because if she wants to be stupid that is up to her but it does bother me that she is telling DCB to lie to me because I think that can lead to other lying and issues. When she picked up yesterday he asked her right in front of me if my brother was coming over again to help them with stuff and she looked very embarrassed but I didn't say anything and they left. I feel she will eventually pull him and that is sad because he has attachment issues and likes it here and has been here a couple of years now but I am not sure if I should have a talk with her...*sigh*...how bad does my luck have to be to end up in this situation? UGH!
I agree, start interviewing
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