wording for drop off

[mamamanda]

How do you have your handbook worded in regards to making a quick drop off to make it easier on the kids? My wording just doesn't sound right to me.

[Thriftylady]

Mine says "pickups and drop offs requiring more than five minutes require a scheduled conference". But DCM doesn't seem to get it she wants to chat up a storm.

[Blackcat31]

How do you have your handbook worded in regards to making a quick drop off to make it easier on the kids? My wording just doesn't sound right to me.

I have a paragraph in my handbook that says:

Transition times such as drop off and pick-up can be a difficult time for children. Please try to make these times as short as possible.

Years of experience have taught me that children are resilient and usually transition quickly upon drop off if the parent is swift, firm and regular in their separation routines.

Children often feed off of any anxiety or stress a parent exhibits so it is important that you address the child's fears with a reassuring hug/kiss, state your plans to return at the end of the day and follow with a quick exit.

If your child is experiencing any separation anxiety or issues, please rest assured that I will do everything necessary to welcome your child and make their transition from parent to childcare a comfortable and pleasant one.

If your child does not calm down and join the rest of the group within a reasonable amount of time, you will be notified and requested to pick-up if necessary.

If there is anything you need to discuss with me, please set up a time to talk in which we can do so privately and uninterrupted.

[MarinaVanessa]

My transition policies are really in depth ... here's what I say about dropping off and picking up ...

Transition Difficulties
Transition times such as drop off and pick-up can be a difficult time for children. Please try to make these times as short as possible.

Years of experience have taught me that children are resilient and usually transition quickly upon drop off if the parent is confident, swift, firm and consistent in their separation routines.

Children often feed off of any anxiety or stress a parent exhibits so it is important that you address your child's fears with a reassuring hug/kiss, tell your child that you will return at the end of the day and follow that with a quick exit.

While there may be tears, prolonging your departure only creates more stress on your child. While sometimes you can’t avoid a stressful departure, you can however make it shorter. Children are resilient and adapt very quickly after their parent has left and usually within minutes begin to play.

If your child experiences separation anxiety or issues, please rest assured that I will do everything necessary to welcome your child and make their transition from parent to childcare a comfortable and pleasant one.

If your child does not calm down and join the rest of the group within a reasonable amount of time, you will be notified and requested to pick-up only if necessary.

[Blackcat31]

I have a paragraph in my handbook that says:

Transition times such as drop off and pick-up can be a difficult time for children. Please try to make these times as short as possible.

Years of experience have taught me that children are resilient and usually transition quickly upon drop off if the parent is swift, firm and regular in their separation routines.

Children often feed off of any anxiety or stress a parent exhibits so it is important that you address the child's fears with a reassuring hug/kiss, state your plans to return at the end of the day and follow with a quick exit.

If your child is experiencing any separation anxiety or issues, please rest assured that I will do everything necessary to welcome your child and make their transition from parent to childcare a comfortable and pleasant one.

If your child does not calm down and join the rest of the group within a reasonable amount of time, you will be notified and requested to pick-up if necessary.

If there is anything you need to discuss with me, please set up a time to talk in which we can do so privately and uninterrupted.

My transition policies are really in depth ... here's what I say about dropping off and picking up ...

Transition Difficulties
Transition times such as drop off and pick-up can be a difficult time for children. Please try to make these times as short as possible.

Years of experience have taught me that children are resilient and usually transition quickly upon drop off if the parent is confident, swift, firm and consistent in their separation routines.

Children often feed off of any anxiety or stress a parent exhibits so it is important that you address your child's fears with a reassuring hug/kiss, tell your child that you will return at the end of the day and follow that with a quick exit.

While there may be tears, prolonging your departure only creates more stress on your child. While sometimes you can’t avoid a stressful departure, you can however make it shorter. Children are resilient and adapt very quickly after their parent has left and usually within minutes begin to play.

If your child experiences separation anxiety or issues, please rest assured that I will do everything necessary to welcome your child and make their transition from parent to childcare a comfortable and pleasant one.

If your child does not calm down and join the rest of the group within a reasonable amount of time, you will be notified and requested to pick-up only if necessary.

@MV It's obvious that we worked together on our handbooks :: lovethis

[MarinaVanessa]

@MV It's obvious that we worked together on our handbooks :: lovethis

Ha ha, I posted before I read the responses!!

Yes, I used a lot of BC's influence when I rewrote my handbook!! LOL ::::::

[Desi]

Hahahaha I thought that was so cute!

[NoMoreJuice!]

"It is normal for some children to have difficulty separating from parents or cry when dropping off. Please make your drop off brief: the longer you prolong the departure, the harder it gets. A smile, cheerful good-bye kiss, and a reassuring word that you will be back is all that is needed. In our experience, children are nearly always quick to get involved in play or activities as soon as parents are gone. At **daycare**, we love every child that comes to us and are confident that love grows trust. After an initial adjustment period, your child will be thrilled to be with us and separation should be very easy and calm.

Please be brief at pick-up times, as well. This is a time of testing, when two different authority figures are present (the parent and the provider). All children will test to see if the rules still apply. During arrival and departure, we expect parents to back up our rules. Please be in control of your child during pick up times. Drop off and pick up are not good times to have lengthy discussions. Little ears and minds hear and understand everything. If you have concerns, we can set up a time where the issues can be discussed in private."