Why Do People Overbaby

[Starburst]

As a parent I totally understand.

(ETA: I think you should cuddle the kids for as long as they'll let you! I am talking more about encouraging independence in other areas)

Unfortunately, some people don't understand the difference between 'cuddling' and 'coddling'.

[Josiegirl]

You know what else is irritating? Kids that scream for you and expect you to come running to their every demand! I have a new one that does that :dislike:

OMG YES!!! I have some 6-8 yos that do that. I can be in the kitchen cleaning up from lunch and I'll hear the 8 yo yelling to me, wanting something. I just ignore her. Both she and her sister have been soooo indulged.

I'll be the very first to admit I babied my babies. Especially my firstborn. But I also never sent him to dc, expecting others to take care of him or manage his napping habits(or lack of). I remember when he was a 3 month-old and someone gave me grief over rocking him. I'm thinking WTH? What's wrong with that?? Then I got grief again when I was still nursing my babies at 1 yo. I also encouraged their efforts when they were learning skills.

[Josiegirl]

OP, those parents are clearly running all over you because you allow it. I don't know your situation, if you need to do all this due to finances, but only you can change it. Sounds like you're putting yourself dead last, don't do that. Your physical and mental health will suffer!
Figure out what you're happy doing, then write up your policies accordingly. Act professional, be professional, you'll be treated professionally.