Would You Term For This?

[childcaremom]

this too...

BC taught me, put it back on the parents..... If they are not getting on board, putting it back on them and calling for pick up will help them figure out just how bad the issues are. If they can't get on board after seeing it with their own two eyes and all of the disruptions to their day, then they will need to leave. Why should you and the dcks always have to be the ones with the disruptions in their day??? You shouldn't, put it back on the parents....

afterall, they created the issue in the first place.....

This is interesting advice.... may have to start my own thread, .

[daycare]

This is interesting advice.... may have to start my own thread, .

when BC gave me this advice, I didn't think that I could follow through and put it back on the parents. one day I had a dck screaming at drop off for over and hour because they wanted to go to the park before dc. the dad had taken him to the park the day before becuase they were having an early day. Well long story short, the next day they were running late and the kid wanted to go to the park, dad says no, dck screams for over an hour. This happened 2 times and I was almost to tears, the other kids were just distrought due to the crying. on the 3rd time I called and said pick up. the parents were not happy at all.

I tell parents you need a consistent morning routine, they say ok. What does dcd do, he caves the next day and stops at the park...Yup screaming again the next day, I called to pick up again. I called for pick up 3 or 4 times and after that the parents finally got it. They are still here....