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  • TSDaycare
    Daycare.com Member
    • Oct 2009
    • 138

    Little Ones Calling You "Mama"

    This is silly-and I dont know why it bothers me-but all 3 of my little ones call me "mama". Do your little ones do the same? They all turn 2 in 2011-but it is just odd that none of them will say my name, and when I try to get them to say my name-they say "mama".....
  • Cat Herder
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Dec 2010
    • 13744

    #2
    Do you have kids of your own in the group?
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    • SilverSabre25
      Senior Member
      • Aug 2010
      • 7585

      #3
      I have several who are just starting to talk who do this. It doesn't bother me, except that I think parents might think I'm enforcing it or something. I just gently tell them, "I'm [me]!"
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      • TSDaycare
        Daycare.com Member
        • Oct 2009
        • 138

        #4
        I also reinforce my name-I feel the same way about the parents so maybe that is my issue with them calling me "mama". I do have a child of my own in care but he calls me "mom"

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        • SilverSabre25
          Senior Member
          • Aug 2010
          • 7585

          #5
          For months this fall, DD (who turned 3 in October) was calling me by my first name, . I had to reinforce "Mommy" with her. Now it feels weird to be enforcing my name with the others alongside enforcing Mommy with DD...gah, confuses my poor head sometimes!
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          • jen
            Advanced Daycare.com Member
            • Sep 2009
            • 1832

            #6
            I usually laugh and say, "I'm Jen silly-girl! Mama's at work."

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            • DanceMom
              Advanced Daycare.com Member
              • Mar 2010
              • 353

              #7
              Mine all used to because I have 2 kids of my own and of course they called me Mama so the daycare kids also called me mama..now that they are older they know my real name and call me by it

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              • kendallina
                Advanced Daycare.com Member
                • Jul 2010
                • 1660

                #8
                Originally posted by SilverSabre25
                For months this fall, DD (who turned 3 in October) was calling me by my first name, . I had to reinforce "Mommy" with her. Now it feels weird to be enforcing my name with the others alongside enforcing Mommy with DD...gah, confuses my poor head sometimes!
                This is me exactly- my 2 yr old is constantly calling me Katy when the preschool kids are here!

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                • SunflowerMama
                  Advanced Daycare.com Member
                  • Mar 2010
                  • 1113

                  #9
                  Originally posted by SilverSabre25
                  For months this fall, DD (who turned 3 in October) was calling me by my first name, . I had to reinforce "Mommy" with her. Now it feels weird to be enforcing my name with the others alongside enforcing Mommy with DD...gah, confuses my poor head sometimes!
                  It so funny b/c I have twin girls and one calls me mommy and one calls me "Ms. Helen". I reinforce the mommy with her but it's so funny b/c she'll do it even when the kids aren't here and we're out in public. My husband thinks it's hilarious .

                  To op I do have some younger dcks that do call me mama or mommy. I just say mommy is it at work I'm Ms. Helen.

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                  • caregiver
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Dec 2010
                    • 256

                    #10
                    Most of my daycare kids have called me by my name. I had one call me Mommy and I talked to her Mom about it and she said it didn't bother her and said that was ok. My own kids are all grown and married, so don't have that problem anymore with having my own kids call me by my name, never really did either. My one daycare girl calls me grandma, which I don't mind. I talked to her Mom about it because her real grandma would pick her up sometimes and I didn't want her to be hurt by what her grandaughter called me. Her Mom reply was, she calls you grandma because she loves you and it is ok with both her and grandma.

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                    • sahm2three
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Apr 2010
                      • 1104

                      #11
                      Originally posted by sdb20636
                      This is silly-and I dont know why it bothers me-but all 3 of my little ones call me "mama". Do your little ones do the same? They all turn 2 in 2011-but it is just odd that none of them will say my name, and when I try to get them to say my name-they say "mama".....
                      All of my toddlers call me mama. I call myself by my first name, and one day they will catch on. I answer when they call me mama, but I also repeat my first name. Doesn't bother me. It does bug my 4 year old a bit though.

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                      • Missani
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Dec 2010
                        • 214

                        #12
                        My four year old son calls me "Ms. Sandi" during day care hours and mom the rest of the time. Sometimes he'll get confused and say, "Ms. Sandi...I mean, mom..." It is hilarious. It was even more funny when 2 year old dcg started and called me "mama" at first. Then I had someone else's kid calling me mom and my kid calling me Ms. Sandi. I figure we could have really confused some people. Now dcg is almost 2 1/2 and calls me by my name.

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                        • DBug
                          Daycare Member
                          • Oct 2009
                          • 934

                          #13
                          All of my little ones start out calling me "Mommy". My 2.5-ish dcg has just finally started calling me by my first name. I've even had parents pick up and their child cry and call for Mommy while reaching for me . Honestly, it would break my heart if one of my own children called someone else "Mommy" -- and even more so if it were a habitual thing! But, as a wise friend of mine says "That's the choice they've made" (ie. to work outside the home and have someone else fill in as Mommy).

                          It actually makes me a bit sad to have 5 dc littles calling me Mommy, but from what I've heard, it's completely normal ...
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                          • ninosqueridos
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Jul 2010
                            • 410

                            #14
                            I have one 2yo dcb that gets angry when I correct him, and he says, "No! You MAMA!" (he calls his Mom "Mommy")

                            I have one 2yo dcg that goes back and forth b/w Mama and my name. I think "Mama" just sort of slips out because she's so used to calling her Mom.

                            It doesn't bother me although I still do remind them of my name once in awhile. I don't remind them every single time or I'd be doing it 999 times per day.

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                            • Blackcat31
                              • Oct 2010
                              • 36124

                              #15
                              I used to provide care for my niece who is now 16 and when she was here she called me "Auntie" so all the kids did too....I've never had anyone call me momma though...

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