Hi all! I am a registered user, but for some reason can not get my password reset.
I'm looking for advice on how to handle a situation.
I have a family that has been with me for over 4 years. They are amazing clients. Pay on on time, drop off and pick up when they say, etc. I love this family! So what's the problem right?
Their ds is my nightmare! He is 17 months old and a handful! He throws toys (very well that he has broken things) he hits (people and animals) and scratches. I have tried everything with him, even timeouts and positive reinforcements. I tell this child no, and that it is not nice or acceptable to throw, hit, etc... But he is 17 months old and laughs at me and the proceeds to slap me in the face.
I now have other dcf's complaining about this child and I fear are on the verge of leaving.
This behavior of his has been going on for months and only gets worse. When I have addressed it to the parents, they tell me about the other things he has done at home. And tell me what THEY do to discipline. None of which I am willing to do at my daycare (let alone to my own children).
I'm curious to see how you would handle this?
Right now I'm going to have a talk with them and basically give them a warning, but I don't know if i should threaten a suspension, or full termination.
I'm looking for advice on how to handle a situation.
I have a family that has been with me for over 4 years. They are amazing clients. Pay on on time, drop off and pick up when they say, etc. I love this family! So what's the problem right?
Their ds is my nightmare! He is 17 months old and a handful! He throws toys (very well that he has broken things) he hits (people and animals) and scratches. I have tried everything with him, even timeouts and positive reinforcements. I tell this child no, and that it is not nice or acceptable to throw, hit, etc... But he is 17 months old and laughs at me and the proceeds to slap me in the face.
I now have other dcf's complaining about this child and I fear are on the verge of leaving.
This behavior of his has been going on for months and only gets worse. When I have addressed it to the parents, they tell me about the other things he has done at home. And tell me what THEY do to discipline. None of which I am willing to do at my daycare (let alone to my own children).
I'm curious to see how you would handle this?
Right now I'm going to have a talk with them and basically give them a warning, but I don't know if i should threaten a suspension, or full termination.
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