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So a dcm I've had major issues with recently (manipulating me through her daughter, attacking me about schedule changes that made her daughter cry, etc) accused me of allowing a dcb2 to "bully" her dcg3 by hitting her and pushing her around...I termed immediately because I've been looking for a good reason. I wanted to do it in person, but she was not receptive to my suggestion of a face to face meeting because she was too busy, so oh well.
Anyway, I told her that violence is never allowed in my house, and that all kids are supervised at all times (it's a 3 or 4 to one ratio depending on the day...not hard to keep them in eyesight). It's simply a story dcg made up because she wants to stay home with mommy. They all do it occasionally, make up an excuse to stay home, and it's normal. However, I will not tolerate her making specific accusations about one child and leading her daughter to tell a story that is untrue.
So I asked her to pick up all of the girl's things and I offered to refund the one extra day she paid for and make copies of all of dcg's paperwork for a new provider to use. She FLIPPED OUT on me, then apparently called her ex husband, (who is a great guy) who called me immediately. I explained to him that I needed to do this to protect my business, and he said he understood, but was very sad about it. I'll miss him and dcg, but dcm is just too much to deal with.
Logically, she fired back that I must be hiding something, and that I'd better have my ducks in a row so to speak. Yep, I'm expecting a visit in the next few days. Luckily I think I'm all set! It's time for my annual inspection anyway, so my ducks are most definitely in a row.
Wish me luck on the complaint inspection!!
Anyway, I told her that violence is never allowed in my house, and that all kids are supervised at all times (it's a 3 or 4 to one ratio depending on the day...not hard to keep them in eyesight). It's simply a story dcg made up because she wants to stay home with mommy. They all do it occasionally, make up an excuse to stay home, and it's normal. However, I will not tolerate her making specific accusations about one child and leading her daughter to tell a story that is untrue.
So I asked her to pick up all of the girl's things and I offered to refund the one extra day she paid for and make copies of all of dcg's paperwork for a new provider to use. She FLIPPED OUT on me, then apparently called her ex husband, (who is a great guy) who called me immediately. I explained to him that I needed to do this to protect my business, and he said he understood, but was very sad about it. I'll miss him and dcg, but dcm is just too much to deal with.
Logically, she fired back that I must be hiding something, and that I'd better have my ducks in a row so to speak. Yep, I'm expecting a visit in the next few days. Luckily I think I'm all set! It's time for my annual inspection anyway, so my ducks are most definitely in a row.
Wish me luck on the complaint inspection!!
. Maybe you should call your licensing rep to give them a heads up?
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