DCG Cries When She Leaves

[AngelsMommy]

I have a dcg who is 14 months old and has been with me since she was 4 months old. When her dad comes to pick her up she screams when I hand her over to him. This happens everyday. Is it most likely because she doesn't want to leave me, or for some reason doesn't want to go to her dad?

[midaycare]

I have a dcg who is 14 months old and has been with me since she was 4 months old. When her dad comes to pick her up she screams when I hand her over to him. This happens everyday. Is it most likely because she doesn't want to leave me, or for some reason doesn't want to go to her dad?

I have a dcg, 2, who screams bloody murder when Dcd picks her up but not dcm. I have a dcb, age 17 months, who never wants to leave.

I wouldn't want to go home either. My daycare is cool Ha, ha. There are no underlying issues with these 2 kids, but I know the dcf's well enough to say that.

[melilley]

I have a dcg, 2, who screams bloody murder when Dcd picks her up but not dcm. I have a dcb, age 17 months, who never wants to leave.

I wouldn't want to go home either. My daycare is cool Ha, ha. There are no underlying issues with these 2 kids, but I know the dcf's well enough to say that.

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I had one dcg who didn't want to come at first, but after a few weeks, didn't want to go home and would scream bloody murder!

[AngelsMommy]

I had to ask because I have a small gut feeling she is scared, but yet, I am miss paranoid who thinks everyone is out to hurt children and pets

[jenboo]

Almost all of my kids throw fits when its time to leave no matter who picks them up.
I take it as a complement.

Does she scream when mom picks up?

[daycare]

all of my kids do this.

most don't want to come and NO body wants to leave.

I have one that runs and tries to hide from his mom when she comes to pick up. I got tired of it and made him sit by the door with shoes on. I also block my backroom off now so they can't go anywhere but out the front door.

Don't feel bad, she is just having a hard time with transitions leaving.

[AngelsMommy]

Almost all of my kids throw fits when its time to leave no matter who picks them up.
I take it as a complement.

Does she scream when mom picks up?

no, she is happy to see mommy..only screams with dad

[AngelsMommy]

all of my kids do this.

most don't want to come and NO body wants to leave.

I have one that runs and tries to hide from his mom when she comes to pick up. I got tired of it and made him sit by the door with shoes on. I also block my backroom off now so they can't go anywhere but out the front door.

Don't feel bad, she is just having a hard time with transitions leaving.

:hug:

[ACH247]

My daughter does this with my mom but it is because she isn't with her that much. It could be that she isn't around him that often.

[e.j.]

I've had kids get upset when Dad shows up instead of Mom - especially if Mom is the one who usually picks up. They get used to a certain routine and when the expected doesn't happen, they get very upset. Even the most loving of dads can make their kids scream as if they're being chased by a mass murderer when the kids were expecting mom to pick them up. Could this be what's going on with your dcg?

[AngelsMommy]

These replies are very relieving!

[midaycare]

I've had kids get upset when Dad shows up instead of Mom - especially if Mom is the one who usually picks up. They get used to a certain routine and when the expected doesn't happen, they get very upset. Even the most loving of dads can make their kids scream as if they're being chased by a mass murderer when the kids were expecting mom to pick them up. Could this be what's going on with your dcg?

My dcg that screams when dcd comes is usually picked up by dcm.