Using My Daycare To Cheat On Her Husband

[lovemykidstoo]

Thanks so much for all of your help, ladies. I think the biggest issue is that I want to term immediately but my husband (who is her husband's very good friend...and again, we can see their house from our back yard) thinks it is terrible of me to want to term them. In his opinion, we should do whatever we can to help him out. I told him that we can help him as his friends, but not with my business. I am done.

And the reason for that....she went CRAZY!!! Like an episode of SNAPPED on Lifetime. Seriously bad. The Monday before Thanksgiving the dad came to our back door with his two older boys, freaking out. I took the boys downstairs and the middle (age 6 and in my son's class at school) told me his mom needed to be medicated and have doctors. The older boy, age 8, told him not to think about it. I gave them hugs and said that everybody needs help sometime.

We sat them down with movies, snacks, and company. Turns out that psycho's still boyfriend (yes, she has been seeing him while going to marriage counseling) has another girlfriend, and she came to the husband's house. They took a selfie and sent it to her. She came driving home in a rage in her big SUV (18 month old in the back) and proceeded to storm into her house, drag the woman off the kitchen stool and beat the crap out of her. Husband had to separate them while telling the older boys to go into the back bedroom. He got some cracked ribs and a concussion while trying to separate them.

The wife ran back outside to the SUV and the other woman stood on the front porch. Well, she tried to run her over, TWICE! She circled back up over the yard and on the street trying to run her over (again with the youngest still in the SUV) and then raced off to Target to meet her lover.

She was picked up by the cops and charged with child endangerment and attempted murder. My husband still wants me to help out the husband. I said, no. The boys need a live-in nanny with a psychology degree. The kicker of it is...her mom told the husband to leave her in jail, but he didn't listen and bailed her out for the holiday. He had to lift the restraining order against her in order to do it. Now, she is trying to text me and sent over an apology note with my husband with the money she owed me. Her husband has apparently forgiven her and has let her back into the house. They are pretending nothing happened.

My dad says it doesn't matter the income bracket, college education, etc....some people are just crazy.

There is no way I am letting her back in the daycare!

OK, wait, so the boyfriend that she's been seeing behind her husbands back, has a girlfriend? That girlfriend went to her house and took a picture with her now husband and they sent it to her? Does husband know she's still seeing the boyfriend? How does the husband know this woman? Wow, this is crazy!

[Hunni Bee]

Please term that nonsense. If she is capable of being that unhinged and violent, you are endangering your family and dck's by even letting her in your house.

What happens when she gets mad at YOU?? Your husband doesn't run the daycare, and her husband isn't helping himself, so why should you?

I know you don't want to leave the boys without anywhere to go, but I can't imagine her not flipping out again and if she's back in the home, its going to make its way to your doorstep again.

[KiddieCahoots]

Why help the husband if he's only making the situation worse?

Why the heck would he take and send selfies of himself and the boyfriends girlfriend, if not to rile up his wife up?

Ok.....that last sentence sounds like something from Jerry Springer...::....

Just be done with it all.

[Michael]

Why help the husband if he's only making the situation worse?

Why the heck would he take and send selfies of himself and the boyfriends girlfriend, if not to rile up his wife up?

Ok.....that last sentence sounds like something from Jerry Springer...::....

Just be done with it all.

Yes, this thread is starting to get the feel of a soap opera.