Please tell me if you think I handled this correctly (first time enforcing illness policy, so I could use some validation on my doing so!)....
About two weeks ago, DCG got dropped off with suspicious looking crusty eyes and I didn't notice until dcd was gone. For whatever reason, I didn't have her picked up, but cleaned the eyes and kept up with sanatizing and hand washing and kept an eye (haha) on it. No discharge. I got her up from her nap to go home at the end of the day and BAM- lots of very obviously pink eye discharge. Mom takes her to doc who confirms and prescribes eye drops, child returns not the following day but the day after.
Fast forward to today: same exact eye crust. Stuck in the eye lashes and all. So, I question dad at drop off (which was very awkward) and said I would have to call his wife bc he had to be at work. (I know that part could/should have been handled differently) But I call mom (teacher) to arrange for pick up, and I find myself having to defend my stance on her going home. She finds it "hard to believe" it is pink eye again so quickly, according to her conversation with the school nurse. Had to jump through hoops to get dcg picked up and I could tell mom was annoyed. Dcg's aunt ended up having to come get her.
I KNOW what pink eye looks like. Literally pink in the eyeball or not, when there is discharge matted into eye lashes, I am not dealing with it going through my house and spreading to my kids and missing school, etc. I am just so aggravated with mom who questioned me and scoffed at me and refused to even believe it and explain it away because "she doesn't have a fever, she was running around fine all weekend; when I took her to the dr last time, her eye was constantly discharging"(OK, let's wait until it gets to that point then? no...)....I waited til her aunt came before cleaning it out so she could see it and know that i wasn't trying to get a day off or anything.
Hindsight question: should I have been the one to put the drops in before she went home, or to have the aunt do it before leaving so I knew that it got done?
Did I do this right?
I have never sent anyone home sick before. Here's hoping a) I don't have to again and b) I get better at this.
About two weeks ago, DCG got dropped off with suspicious looking crusty eyes and I didn't notice until dcd was gone. For whatever reason, I didn't have her picked up, but cleaned the eyes and kept up with sanatizing and hand washing and kept an eye (haha) on it. No discharge. I got her up from her nap to go home at the end of the day and BAM- lots of very obviously pink eye discharge. Mom takes her to doc who confirms and prescribes eye drops, child returns not the following day but the day after.
Fast forward to today: same exact eye crust. Stuck in the eye lashes and all. So, I question dad at drop off (which was very awkward) and said I would have to call his wife bc he had to be at work. (I know that part could/should have been handled differently) But I call mom (teacher) to arrange for pick up, and I find myself having to defend my stance on her going home. She finds it "hard to believe" it is pink eye again so quickly, according to her conversation with the school nurse. Had to jump through hoops to get dcg picked up and I could tell mom was annoyed. Dcg's aunt ended up having to come get her.
I KNOW what pink eye looks like. Literally pink in the eyeball or not, when there is discharge matted into eye lashes, I am not dealing with it going through my house and spreading to my kids and missing school, etc. I am just so aggravated with mom who questioned me and scoffed at me and refused to even believe it and explain it away because "she doesn't have a fever, she was running around fine all weekend; when I took her to the dr last time, her eye was constantly discharging"(OK, let's wait until it gets to that point then? no...)....I waited til her aunt came before cleaning it out so she could see it and know that i wasn't trying to get a day off or anything.
Hindsight question: should I have been the one to put the drops in before she went home, or to have the aunt do it before leaving so I knew that it got done?
Did I do this right?
I have never sent anyone home sick before. Here's hoping a) I don't have to again and b) I get better at this.
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