I did term today, it was not well received at all, which is to be expected. I said Friday would be my last day and they ended it today. Talked to my license rep beforehand and she told me that if I thought that this situation would escalate at any time with this dcb, that it would be best to term. She supported my decision,which really made me feel I was doing the right thing.
This dcm just doesn't get it, she kept telling me I was overreacting and that it is just a little boy making up stories. But what she doesn't get is that if he makes this up now at only 4 yrs old, what could he possibly make up next and to whom and would they believe that it was just a little boy making things up. I am not willing to put myself or family in a situation like this as it could possibly turn my life upside down,all because a little boy felt he had to make up things and how do you prove your innocence if the wrong person heard this and did not know he was fibbing.
Well, I got the whole I'm putting her in a bad situation as now she has no daycare and no one to drive him to preschool,which I was doing. She doesn't want to think that her son put her in this situation by fibbing and to myself & my husband, this is a serious issue that this child is doing this at this age and attacking my husband,who he doesn't hardly know or see when he is here is not something that can be dismissed easily as he is just a kid making up stories.
I do feel bad for the parents as I did put them in a bad situation for daycare,but the child is a lair and they need to deal with this before it gets out of hand and really hurts somebody.
I know I did the right thing in terming and hopefully the parents will realize that their son needs help of some kind. He is a very manipulative child with behavioral issues that need to be dealt with before it gets out of hand.
This dcm just doesn't get it, she kept telling me I was overreacting and that it is just a little boy making up stories. But what she doesn't get is that if he makes this up now at only 4 yrs old, what could he possibly make up next and to whom and would they believe that it was just a little boy making things up. I am not willing to put myself or family in a situation like this as it could possibly turn my life upside down,all because a little boy felt he had to make up things and how do you prove your innocence if the wrong person heard this and did not know he was fibbing.
Well, I got the whole I'm putting her in a bad situation as now she has no daycare and no one to drive him to preschool,which I was doing. She doesn't want to think that her son put her in this situation by fibbing and to myself & my husband, this is a serious issue that this child is doing this at this age and attacking my husband,who he doesn't hardly know or see when he is here is not something that can be dismissed easily as he is just a kid making up stories.
I do feel bad for the parents as I did put them in a bad situation for daycare,but the child is a lair and they need to deal with this before it gets out of hand and really hurts somebody.
I know I did the right thing in terming and hopefully the parents will realize that their son needs help of some kind. He is a very manipulative child with behavioral issues that need to be dealt with before it gets out of hand.
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