How to gently term a family? Little Boy makes the days terrible

[Thriftylady]

But go ahead and use it until you add it to your contract if need be. Just write up a form for it, list everything and you and parent sign it. The great thing is you get to decided the terms such as "in three weeks, we need to see..... at that time we will reevaluate and decide what action to take at that time". That way if you decide you have seen some improvement you can redo it. Perhaps if he has six behaviors that need to change, you can pick the first two for the first probation to work on so as not to throw it all at once.