I have a family that never pays on time. There has been several times that she will show up and say "I can't find my debit card" so she will go and bring me back money late friday night, or sat. Or she will not come on friday, and I usually have to text her all day and remind her to bring me money. Its getting old. I am very close to just terming even though I will loose most of my income ( I have both her kids). The last few times she has "forgot" to pay me, I didn't chase money down, and I made her pay the late fees. But its not getting better. At this point what do I do? She called this morning and once again said the girls are at grandmas today and she said she would bring money by later. I don't have the energy to chase it down or constantly try to remind her. Should I draw up a warning form? I have never gotten to a point where everything I have done hasn't worked. I have never had to put any one on probation before. I was going to make her pre pay, but she always pays sometime on the weekend or my Monday morning so I am at a loss of what to do next. Thanks and sorry for the rambling
. I just feel used and stressed and don't know what to do. I feel like I have no choice but to let her do what she wants. I need to get back to me being in charge and not her.

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