What to do!?

[debbiedoeszip]

But if it is just make up intimacy....

Then a call from CPS might be just what is needed for them to pull their heads out of their butts. DH and I don't always agree, but we keep it quiet and non-hostile because we share our home with a minor. And what we do in the bedroom is far from vanilla but we are always aware that we don't live alone, and so we tailor our behaviour/noise accordingly.

If it's just a case of a noisy disagreement followed by noisy sex, then they have nothing to worry about (though they should really pull their heads out), but if it's something more...

[TaylorTots]

I have no opinion whether you should report or talk to mom. Regardless, I do want to say.....

Older brother knows something. He told younger brother to stop telling the story when it got to any allegedly abusive parts. As a school ager he could give a better synopsis of what happened. If the older brother won't talk to you, he's not likely going to talk to CPS.

[MrsSteinel'sHouse]

Mandated reported- call CPS let them decide what to do.

I also have had a little one that was killed.. I had called, numerous times but it still breaks my heart.

Call anyway.

[CraftyMom]

I was also wondering if you talked to the older brother?

[Chellieleanne]

I have no opinion whether you should report or talk to mom. Regardless, I do want to say.....

Older brother knows something. He told younger brother to stop telling the story when it got to any allegedly abusive parts. As a school ager he could give a better synopsis of what happened. If the older brother won't talk to you, he's not likely going to talk to CPS.

This completely. Brother has sense so to speak to keep his mouth shut so there must be truth to the story. I would report it.

[KidGrind]

Mandated reported- call CPS let them decide what to do.

I also have had a little one that was killed.. I had called, numerous times but it still breaks my heart.

Call anyway.

The child wasn’t in my care. Also, I wasn’t a provider at the time. It was a neighbor’s child.

[mountainside13]

I think I figured it out. I talked to the older brother while the other kids were down for nap. I asked him what they were fighting about but he didn't know just that it was loud. I asked him why his little brother couldn't tell me about what the bf did to mom in their room. He said it is a secret. I told him that he can trust me and he is in a safe place. Then he couldn't get it out fast enough. Bf and mom are going to make a baby but no one can know yet.

Now I'm confused as to how he would know that s*e*x makes babies. After talking to him it's making this even harder. I have been sick to my stomach over this whole thing. I really just want to go for a drive and scream the feelings out.