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We just had our final DYFS meeting yesterday in regard to my divorce drama momma (they still had to interview my older son). The worker was very friendly and said she was closing her end of the case (she handled the charges against me and my children) due to unfounded issues. Said that the DC part could take up to 60 days to close (
) but that she knows he is going to close out his end. Was just a matter of when. 60 days is the whole summer! My DH is waiting for those reports to take to his lawyer. In the end I said "Done!" We are finished here. Shut that door yesterday and moved on.
Then..... I saw them do a drive by my house slow on the way to the fathers yesterday (they are neighbors). I am out in the pool with my older kids so I get everyone out and get dressed so we don't get stuck interviewing in swimsuit etc. They didn't come back to me. Seems dad was filing his own report against Drama momma. God I am so over this mess! Told him he better not drag me back in. I am done! Friday I was mad. Today I feel like I am on eggshells. Like they are watching (you know...for those 20 kids to go running around the neighborhood!:
: Surely they won't cause they are really duct taped in the closets in peed pants while they stand in timeouts ). They aren't there. But it still stresses me. I'm on edge. I don't want to take the kids in the pool...what if they come while I am in there and have to rush them all out. What if I am going for a walk and they come back and are sitting again on my door step. It is about the most nerve wracking thing EVER. It was one thing to attack the DC. I expected that. I was ready. I was NOT expecting charges against me as a parent. They are clearly unfounded. But it angers me that this woman thinks its all a game and funny. This is not only my BUSINESS. This is my FAMILY! And she isn't the type to just say she did it to just sting. She is the type to keep calling over and over and over just to try and prove a point. She has done it to her husband for the last year. Dad reported yesterday around 2. So she should be getting her interview this afternoon....so you know what is coming tomorrow. Man. They can keep their mud slinging over there!
I am not saying he isn't justified. Her drug test from court came back positive for 4 drugs. He went yesterday to pick up the girls and they were all still in bed at 8:30. The boyfriend sleeping over. Mom was 'passed out' again. Sigh. I cannot understand a system that allows people to abuse it and still keeps the children with the mom cause 'its the law'. Something is broken somewhere.
Sorry for the long blah blah blah. I just needed to rant I guess to those who I know would understand. Feeling just kinda bummed today
I was so looking forward to a peaceful summer. Water play days....sun...sand...fun. Now I am on edge and going to get an ulcer.
) but that she knows he is going to close out his end. Was just a matter of when. 60 days is the whole summer! My DH is waiting for those reports to take to his lawyer. In the end I said "Done!" We are finished here. Shut that door yesterday and moved on. Then..... I saw them do a drive by my house slow on the way to the fathers yesterday (they are neighbors). I am out in the pool with my older kids so I get everyone out and get dressed so we don't get stuck interviewing in swimsuit etc. They didn't come back to me. Seems dad was filing his own report against Drama momma.
God I am so over this mess! Told him he better not drag me back in. I am done! Friday I was mad. Today I feel like I am on eggshells. Like they are watching (you know...for those 20 kids to go running around the neighborhood!:: Surely they won't cause they are really duct taped in the closets in peed pants while they stand in timeouts ). They aren't there. But it still stresses me. I'm on edge. I don't want to take the kids in the pool...what if they come while I am in there and have to rush them all out. What if I am going for a walk and they come back and are sitting again on my door step. It is about the most nerve wracking thing EVER. It was one thing to attack the DC. I expected that. I was ready. I was NOT expecting charges against me as a parent. They are clearly unfounded. But it angers me that this woman thinks its all a game and funny. This is not only my BUSINESS. This is my FAMILY! And she isn't the type to just say she did it to just sting. She is the type to keep calling over and over and over just to try and prove a point. She has done it to her husband for the last year. Dad reported yesterday around 2. So she should be getting her interview this afternoon....so you know what is coming tomorrow. Man. They can keep their mud slinging over there!I am not saying he isn't justified. Her drug test from court came back positive for 4 drugs. He went yesterday to pick up the girls and they were all still in bed at 8:30. The boyfriend sleeping over. Mom was 'passed out' again. Sigh. I cannot understand a system that allows people to abuse it and still keeps the children with the mom cause 'its the law'. Something is broken somewhere.
Sorry for the long blah blah blah. I just needed to rant I guess to those who I know would understand. Feeling just kinda bummed today
I was so looking forward to a peaceful summer. Water play days....sun...sand...fun. Now I am on edge and going to get an ulcer.
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