Completely OT, Personal Issue

[NightOwl]

Just thought I'd share this. It's personal, not daycare related.

Playing with my husband's iPhone, which is his work phone, I find inappropriate messages from a woman in his office. Her: I drive you crazy, don't I? Him: nope. Her: Do you like to cuddle and smooch while watching TV? Him: actually no. Not a cuddler. I don't like to be touched at all when I'm relaxing. Her: Well you haven't done it with the right person yet! I like being "distracted" from watching TV. Her: When will you be back in the office?? Him: no response. Her: I promise I am not boring! I may be too much even for you to handle. Him: again, no response.

I was SEETHING MAD. My husband obviously isn't interested. He apologized for not telling me, said he didn't want to upset me, but it was obvious even to me that he was trying to show her his disinterest.

So I sent her this text: This is John _____'s wife. Your text messages to my husband are highly inappropriate. Just know that I have screen shots of those messages and I will have your job if I ever hear of anything inappropriate happening again. He obviously is not interested, so back off. Confirm that you got this message so that I don't have to call (the owner of the company) tomorrow to fill him in.
She responded hours later with "got it".

Loo

I looked her up on Facebook, and she's MARRIED! Well, I couldn't pass up that opportunity. I pm'ed him the whole situation and told him I was sorry to have to inform him of this, but I felt he had a right to know what his wife was up to.

Karma is a bitch.

[NoMoreJuice!]

Omg...I think you did the right thing sending it to her hubs!! That kind of harassment crap is totally uncalled for!! Glad you found a keeper that is interested in keeping a healthy marriage!

[Leanna]

Wow. I don't know what to say other than good for you for having the chutzpah to do that .

[NightOwl]

Ikr! Not to gloat, but I have a SEXY husband and I could definitely see why she would be so bold. But she obviously wasn't thinking with her head.

[CedarCreek]

What a ho-bag.

Your response was much nicer than she deserved.

I'm sorry you had to deal with that. My hubby would be in hot water too for not telling me.

Like, boiling-his-skin-off hot.

[Unregistered]

Yep,karma is a bitch! She won't be doing that again now will she! I had to do that one time too,it wasn't quite so obvious and my husband is such a nerd he acted like he didn't even know it was flirting. After reading it again he sent her a message that it was inappropriate and disrespectful to both spouses.She got what was coming to her too when I told her husband!

[Shell]

Good for you, and well played. I don't know what I would have done, I would be sooo angry!

[NightOwl]

He didn't get off easy, don't get me wrong. I felt he should have told me or nipped it instead of trying to be nice and hoped she got the hint. I asked what he would do if he found messages like that in my phone, and he agreed he'd be LIVID.

[playground1]

Well played indeed! I think you handled that really well.

[NightOwl]

I'm glad you guys agree! You know how you have that little moment of doubt before making a bold move? I had that and second guessed my decision until I received the "got it" text. That told me she KNEW she was wrong and it wasn't simple flirting.

[midaycare]

What a tool! Great job of handling it.

[playground1]

True story: Years ago I met a guy at a party and we made out a bit. He was a dj, I thought he was cool He asked for my number and he called, but for whatever reasons I couldn't make it on the days he wanted to go out.

So about a week later I get a call from his pregnant wife, who is living in a motel with their 2 other kids. She wants to know who I am and asked me if I'd slept with him. I was, as you can imagine, very pleased to report that I had not. She asks me to do her a favor and I feel like he deserves it so...

the next night she does a girl night with her friends at a club and later in the evening ask him to join them. I was there, with his wife, when he arrived Never seen a guy move so fast in my life. Totally worth it.

[lovemykidstoo]

Holy cow, that was awesome what you did!! It was great when you wrote it to her, but to send it to her hubby was an added bonus. Might have been fun to act like you were your husband and say "hey yea baby meet me at my house tonight." Then answer the door when she arrived and see the shock on her face hahaha. Good for you!

[melilley]

True story: Years ago I met a guy at a party and we made out a bit. He was a dj, I thought he was cool He asked for my number and he called, but for whatever reasons I couldn't make it on the days he wanted to go out.

So about a week later I get a call from his pregnant wife, who is living in a motel with their 2 other kids. She wants to know who I am and asked me if I'd slept with him. I was, as you can imagine, very pleased to report that I had not. She asks me to do her a favor and I feel like he deserves it so...

the next night she does a girl night with her friends at a club and later in the evening ask him to join them. I was there, with his wife, when he arrived Never seen a guy move so fast in my life. Totally worth it.

Awesome that you did that! It reminds me of that new movie out. I haven't seen it yet, but heard it was funny.

[melilley]

I think what you did was awesome!