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I would have a discussion with the provider AND your child at the same time.

If he is adamant that he did not say it, then the provider needs to say when and how she heard it.

NOT saying either the provider or the child is lying but sometimes having the discussion together will hold ALL parties accountable.

Your DS's behavior during the discussion will help you know too if he is or isn't lying and discussing it all together in one group will show the provider you take your child's behavior seriously as well as wanting everyone to have the opportunity to be completely honest...kwim?

That's a good idea, we may have to do that this afternoon.

I have a pretty good feel for when he's lying. If I ask him if he did something and he DID do it, he does that whole wont-look-you-in-the-eye-and-mumble thing.

When he is asked if he did something and he did not do it, he usually gets really wide eyed and sounds shocked when he answers "No!"

But kids habits change so who knows. DH said my ds heard the provider telling him about the incident and my DS came to the door and was saying, "Dad, I DID NOT say that!"

Either way, you're right. A group conversation needs to go down.