I've complained about and asked for ideas on my 14mo non-napping screamer. With a few tweaks to nap time, we've gotten most of the screaming stopped. Unless I put him down when he wants up, or I pick him up when he wants down, or I put him to nap too early or too late, or I move him from something he's not supposed to have/touch, or tell him no. This is the same one, when I asked mom how they handle nap time at home, ended up "threatening" to pull him because she didn't think I wanted him here, or "couldn't handle him". I haven't said anything more to her at all about dcb's behavior. Well, like I said, once I tweaked nap times, he is doing a lot better. Except at the beginning of the week. Mondays are hell, Tuesdays get a little better, Wednesdays can go either way, and by Thursday and Friday, he's fine. Tells me it's parents' lack of structure/schedule at home.
Now for my question. Would you tell/ask mom to try (for dcb's sake/happiness at dc) keeping him on the same schedule as he is on here? It really wouldn't be that much of a stretch, as he set the schedule to begin with! I realize they are the parents and can do whatever they want with him when they have him, and it's really not my place to tell them how to raise their child, but it would really be in his best interest to be on a schedule on the weekends too. His endless crankiness is getting on everyone's nerves. The other kids don't want anything to do with him most of the time and are always telling him to shush! (He's also turning into a huge bully, but that's for another post!)
It's to the point that I'm ready to term. I'm hoping to make it past the holidays, but if he left before then, that would be okay too. I see talking to the parents as the last ditch effort before terming him, if that doesn't work.
WWYD in this situation?
Now for my question. Would you tell/ask mom to try (for dcb's sake/happiness at dc) keeping him on the same schedule as he is on here? It really wouldn't be that much of a stretch, as he set the schedule to begin with! I realize they are the parents and can do whatever they want with him when they have him, and it's really not my place to tell them how to raise their child, but it would really be in his best interest to be on a schedule on the weekends too. His endless crankiness is getting on everyone's nerves. The other kids don't want anything to do with him most of the time and are always telling him to shush! (He's also turning into a huge bully, but that's for another post!)
It's to the point that I'm ready to term. I'm hoping to make it past the holidays, but if he left before then, that would be okay too. I see talking to the parents as the last ditch effort before terming him, if that doesn't work.
WWYD in this situation?
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