Get out!!!!

[hope]

Sorry, this is just a vent....I have been having health issues. I have seen doctor after doctor and have yet to have a diagnosis. I have told my dcf's that n n I am going through testing but haven't gone into too much detail bc I want to know the severity myself before I discuss or make any decisions. I had to say something to each bc I am wearing a heart monitor and I have doctors appointments almost every day. The moms that don't need me have taken a break and check in to see how I am doing. One even offered to babysit my own children so I can get a break. But there is one mom that still waits till the last minute to pick up every day. Today she left work early and brought her SA daughter here to run all over at pick up. When I saw her Pull in the driveway I put dcg's coat on and waited at the door to pass off. Doesn't matter, her child ran right past me. I told her I was trying to calm down my ds so can she get her kid to stop running. She proceeded to talk away as her kid ran around upstairs. I have been struggling to watch her child every day. The least she could do is pick up early if she was out early. Instead she ran her errands and then brought her unruly child here to run around after hours. No!!!!!!!
I told her I needed to take my kids for a walk to get the wiggles out of ds and told my kids to get their shoes on. She wanted to come along! I told her no. What in the world is wrong with people??????

[e.j.]

Ordinarliy, I would just speak with her to let her know that pick-ups have to be quick so you can get to the dr but it doesn't sound as though she listens well. Since she doesn't listen well, I would tell her to pick up an hour earlier than you need her to providing you still want to provide care for her kids on days you have a dr. appointment.

Good luck. I hope your feel better soon.

[Heidi]

So, she let her SA go back into your house? One who isn't even in care?

Next time they come together, be ready. When SA tries to move from the entryway, block her and tell her that she may not.

[Sugar Magnolia]

:confused:

[Shell]

My problem family was like this - absolutely no regard for anyone else's issues. If they had an issue, the world needed to stop, everyone needed to listen and help them in any way possible. In retrospect, I think tough times are a good time to see who the parents are and what you mean to them. It's clear that the other families are kind and considerate, and care about you personally. This one, not so much. If I could do it over again, I would have been firmer and/ or termed.

[Laurel]

Sorry, this is just a vent....I have been having health issues. I have seen doctor after doctor and have yet to have a diagnosis. I have told my dcf's that n n I am going through testing but haven't gone into too much detail bc I want to know the severity myself before I discuss or make any decisions. I had to say something to each bc I am wearing a heart monitor and I have doctors appointments almost every day. The moms that don't need me have taken a break and check in to see how I am doing. One even offered to babysit my own children so I can get a break. But there is one mom that still waits till the last minute to pick up every day. Today she left work early and brought her SA daughter here to run all over at pick up. When I saw her Pull in the driveway I put dcg's coat on and waited at the door to pass off. Doesn't matter, her child ran right past me. I told her I was trying to calm down my ds so can she get her kid to stop running. She proceeded to talk away as her kid ran around upstairs. I have been struggling to watch her child every day. The least she could do is pick up early if she was out early. Instead she ran her errands and then brought her unruly child here to run around after hours. No!!!!!!!
I told her I needed to take my kids for a walk to get the wiggles out of ds and told my kids to get their shoes on. She wanted to come along! I told her no. What in the world is wrong with people??????

Maybe you'll just have to tell her "Sally, I don't want to seem mean but I have issues going on right now with my health. I need you to pick up promptly and not allow your older child inside to play. I need as much down time as possible right now so you will need to pick up before closing and leave right away. Thanks for understanding."

Wow, how clueless she is!

Laurel

[momofsix]

Ugh, so sorry you have to deal with all of that. Ridiculous how people can be so rude sometimes
Praying you get answers soon about your health! I've had heart issues for many years now so if you have any questions about anything or just need some support feel free to ask and maybe it's something I've dealt with:hug: