Well, I figured I would be quitting daycare in 3 years, in part because of the new licensing regs that are going to boost expenses quite a bit, but mostly because QRIS participation will probably be mandatory then. I was upset about it, even angry, but then got to the acceptance stage and was even starting to plan a little. Then, my hubby talked to me about it and suggested I try to power through; not throw in the towel quite yet. He is so supportive because he knows I love my days with the kids, even though it takes up half the house, my long days, dcf drama, etc. etc. And, of course, the moolah! I would probably make only half "on the outside" what I do now, but it would also be MUCH less work.
Then, he talked me through what my struggles really are, and what changes I could make to defrazzle the day. I realized that when our own kids were little, I did preschool in the afternoons, only for the kids in their last year before K, when all the younger ones were sleeping. Now, I do it in the a.m., for kids as little as 2 1/2 or close to 3 (depending on the child), when all the others are clamoring for attention and getting into things, and it is H E double hockey sticks! I think this is the one thing pushing me over the edge! It is so freaking hard to teach a preschool lesson 1) to kids under 4 that don't give a hoot, and 2) when newborns/crawlers/cruisers/toddlers are about. I need a screaming emoticon here!
So that's what it is. That is what is jacking up the daycare harmony. When do you guys do your preschool, and for what ages? I want to go back to the way it was, 4yo and over and in the afternoon, but dcfs seem to think I need to school them to death once they hit age 2, and am afraid I won't get clients if I revert back. Thoughts?
Then, he talked me through what my struggles really are, and what changes I could make to defrazzle the day. I realized that when our own kids were little, I did preschool in the afternoons, only for the kids in their last year before K, when all the younger ones were sleeping. Now, I do it in the a.m., for kids as little as 2 1/2 or close to 3 (depending on the child), when all the others are clamoring for attention and getting into things, and it is H E double hockey sticks! I think this is the one thing pushing me over the edge! It is so freaking hard to teach a preschool lesson 1) to kids under 4 that don't give a hoot, and 2) when newborns/crawlers/cruisers/toddlers are about. I need a screaming emoticon here!
So that's what it is. That is what is jacking up the daycare harmony. When do you guys do your preschool, and for what ages? I want to go back to the way it was, 4yo and over and in the afternoon, but dcfs seem to think I need to school them to death once they hit age 2, and am afraid I won't get clients if I revert back. Thoughts?
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