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  • daycare
    Advanced Daycare.com *********
    • Feb 2011
    • 16259

    Daycare and Moving

    So I was just given 60 days notice by my landlord that I will have to move house. I live in a very upscale community where there is nothing for rent right now and I am freaking out. I don't know what I am going to do and I don't know how I am going to find a place in 2 weeks so that I can turn around and give parents a 30 day notice.

    I don't have anything in my contract that says that I have to give them notice should I move or what would happen if we did. I don't know what I am going to do.

    The last time I moved with Daycare it was 550plus miles away, so it was no big deal. I gave an end date all of my clients left. I am the only income for my family and I don't know who is going to rent to us and let me rent do daycare out of their home. I do have a huge insurance policy if that helps at all.

    I just sold my home downsouth a few months back and so I have nothing to show as profit of income. I break even or show very little profit on my taxes.

    I am about to puke. What do I do...HELP
  • Luvnmykidz
    Daycare.com Member
    • Feb 2013
    • 336

    #2
    I don't have any advice for you but just wanted to say sorry that you are going through this. I hope it all works out for you. :hug: :hug: :hug:

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    • daycare
      Advanced Daycare.com *********
      • Feb 2011
      • 16259

      #3
      Originally posted by Luvnmykidz
      I don't have any advice for you but just wanted to say sorry that you are going through this. I hope it all works out for you. :hug: :hug: :hug:
      thanks, I have been crying since I got the notice. I am sure I will lose many clients If I cant' stay in the area

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      • craftymissbeth
        Legally Unlicensed
        • May 2012
        • 2385

        #4
        Doesn't California have a law that landlords can't keep you from having a home daycare? Maybe I'm thinking of another state.

        Ugh, I'm sorry you're going through this! Did they say why you have to move out? :hug:

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        • daycare
          Advanced Daycare.com *********
          • Feb 2011
          • 16259

          #5
          Originally posted by craftymissbeth
          Doesn't California have a law that landlords can't keep you from having a home daycare? Maybe I'm thinking of another state.

          Ugh, I'm sorry you're going through this! Did they say why you have to move out? :hug:
          well they can't tell me I can't run daycare, but it will be hard to find someone that will allow me to have one there, at least this is the case I ran into in the past, plus it is a large DC.

          I did call and ask the property mgt if they would be willing to take an extra $1000n a month could we stay? I have to wait it out a few days to see what they say

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          • EntropyControlSpecialist
            Embracing the chaos.
            • Mar 2012
            • 7466

            #6
            I am so sorry. That is so awful.

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            • Crystal
              Advanced Daycare.com Member
              • Dec 2009
              • 4002

              #7
              So sorry Daycare. I hope it works out for you! :hug:

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              • midaycare
                Daycare.com Member
                • Jan 2014
                • 5658

                #8
                I'm sorry you're going through this. :hug: I was a renter for quite some time, and it's very difficult when you are at someone else's whim.

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                • NightOwl
                  Advanced Daycare.com Member
                  • Mar 2014
                  • 2722

                  #9
                  I know you're afraid of losing clients, but I promise, there's more where those came from! Childcare will never be obsolete. If you move away, there will be families at the new location who will be thrilled to have you.

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                  • daycare
                    Advanced Daycare.com *********
                    • Feb 2011
                    • 16259

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Wednesday
                    I know you're afraid of losing clients, but I promise, there's more where those came from! Childcare will never be obsolete. If you move away, there will be families at the new location who will be thrilled to have you.
                    thanks for the encouragement. I guess I stress due to the fact that there are a million daycares in my area and it took me almost 2 years to fill to cap.

                    I am also stressing that I am the only one with income. After 7 years of medical school, my husband decided that he wanted to own a gym and does not like the politics of the medical indy. Yes that was a hard pill to swallow, but I can't make him work in a field that keeps him so unhappy. It does **** that we are 100s in debt, but I am hoping that he will change of heart once he realizes that we need the money just to pay those loans off.

                    So my husband has a very cool popular START up crossfit gym, but we are not making any money yet, nor are we breaking even. BUT I promised I would give it 3 years.

                    UGH and to top it all off today is my 10th wedding anniversary.......what a day I have had..

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                    • spud912
                      Trix are for kids
                      • Jan 2011
                      • 2398

                      #11
                      Originally posted by daycare
                      thanks for the encouragement. I guess I stress due to the fact that there are a million daycares in my area and it took me almost 2 years to fill to cap.

                      I am also stressing that I am the only one with income. After 7 years of medical school, my husband decided that he wanted to own a gym and does not like the politics of the medical indy. Yes that was a hard pill to swallow, but I can't make him work in a field that keeps him so unhappy. It does **** that we are 100s in debt, but I am hoping that he will change of heart once he realizes that we need the money just to pay those loans off.

                      So my husband has a very cool popular START up crossfit gym, but we are not making any money yet, nor are we breaking even. BUT I promised I would give it 3 years.

                      UGH and to top it all off today is my 10th wedding anniversary.......what a day I have had..
                      I wanted to say something yesterday but got swamped with things. :hug: I'm really sorry you're going through this! That is a ton of stress! Have you started looking to see if there are any rentals nearby? I suppose if need be, you could always downsize and then the income hit won't be as bad. Let me know if you need to talk more! I can just feel your stress and definitely understand!

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                      • Blackcat31
                        • Oct 2010
                        • 36124

                        #12
                        Wow, that ****s!!

                        Why is it exactly that your landlord is now asking you to move? If you've lived there a long time and been good tenants I am confused as to what the issue is.

                        (sorry, if I missed it in the other replies )

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                        • NeedaVaca
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Mar 2012
                          • 2276

                          #13
                          I'm sorry you are going through this! I would strongly encourage your DH to find some kind of job using his degree! It doesn't have to be forever but he should have to shoulder some responsibilities for the debt for his education. Sports medicine? Something related to what he enjoys (gym)? I'm sure there are opportunities out there... I can't imagine a cross fit gym would pay off those debts even in 3 years, that should be on the side IMO.

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                          • originalkat
                            Daycare.com Member
                            • Dec 2009
                            • 1392

                            #14
                            Originally posted by NeedaVaca
                            I'm sorry you are going through this! I would strongly encourage your DH to find some kind of job using his degree! It doesn't have to be forever but he should have to shoulder some responsibilities for the debt for his education. Sports medicine? Something related to what he enjoys (gym)? I'm sure there are opportunities out there... I can't imagine a cross fit gym would pay off those debts even in 3 years, that should be on the side IMO.
                            I agree. I know you didnt ask about him...but it just seems like he needs to do something to help in this situation too. I am all about my hubby following his dream (that is why my daycare is our only income right now too). He is applying to MD/Phd schools. BUT when the rubber meets the road the bills have to be paid.

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                            • mountainside13
                              Daycare.com Member
                              • Jan 2014
                              • 777

                              #15
                              I'm sorry you are going through this! You have gotten a lot of great advice, so :hug::hug:

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