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Hello! I am new here. I have a 3yo son and a 19 month old daughter. Recently (about a month ago now) I got a little girl who is almost 3 and her little brother who is 4 months old.
My son is pretty laid back, but has your typical toddler problems. Doesn't like sharing, hates cleaning up, gets moody sometimes, etc. This little girl, who I am now calling Lucy, is a spitfire. She is demanding, she acts entitled and is constantly trying to use the excuse that she is special to get things that the other kids don't have, she takes things from other kids and dances around with them in front of their faces, etc. I know she isn't malicious...she's not even 3! But since she's arrived, my son has started crying a lot more, started having accidents (he's been potty trained for over a year and has never had accidents since we trained him), and he is generally unpleasant when she is around. They get along sometimes, but it's not often. He is happier when she is gone or other children their age are around. He gets along with all of the other children just fine.
How do I handle this?
Her parents don't give her any boundaries and that has become very clear. Last week she wanted to sleep in their camper instead of the house, so they did it for most of the week because she demanded it. I am not sure if they maybe are the type of parents who don't use the word no, but they might be.
As of now, we gave him a box and let him put a few of his favorite toys in it. The box only comes out when no one is here. He doesn't talk about it to the other kids, but it seems to be helping him feel less territorial.
Sorry about the rant, I am just out of ideas.
My son is pretty laid back, but has your typical toddler problems. Doesn't like sharing, hates cleaning up, gets moody sometimes, etc. This little girl, who I am now calling Lucy, is a spitfire. She is demanding, she acts entitled and is constantly trying to use the excuse that she is special to get things that the other kids don't have, she takes things from other kids and dances around with them in front of their faces, etc. I know she isn't malicious...she's not even 3! But since she's arrived, my son has started crying a lot more, started having accidents (he's been potty trained for over a year and has never had accidents since we trained him), and he is generally unpleasant when she is around. They get along sometimes, but it's not often. He is happier when she is gone or other children their age are around. He gets along with all of the other children just fine.
How do I handle this?
Her parents don't give her any boundaries and that has become very clear. Last week she wanted to sleep in their camper instead of the house, so they did it for most of the week because she demanded it. I am not sure if they maybe are the type of parents who don't use the word no, but they might be.
As of now, we gave him a box and let him put a few of his favorite toys in it. The box only comes out when no one is here. He doesn't talk about it to the other kids, but it seems to be helping him feel less territorial.
Sorry about the rant, I am just out of ideas.
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