Thinking of Polling My Parents

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... to see whether they would prefer that I discontinue doing our Spring Hunt.

Not only were there no positive comments from parents about the fun and fun things the kids brought home, but several complained that they were "wild" and "all sugared up". (They each ate one tiny piece of candy, and brought home two tiny pieces.)

Why did I go to the trouble and expense? The kids loved it, but if the parents don't...should I still do it?

Or is it that they think it takes away from any egg hunt that they do on the weekend?

Or is it that they like it, but are accustomed to only lodging complaints, and nothing positive? (Pretty sure they aren't parenting like that!)

Any insight?

[KidGrind]

... to see whether they would prefer that I discontinue doing our Spring Hunt.

Not only were there no positive comments from parents about the fun and fun things the kids brought home, but several complained that they were "wild" and "all sugared up". (They each ate one tiny piece of candy, and brought home two tiny pieces.)

Why did I go to the trouble and expense? The kids loved it, but if the parents don't...should I still do it?

Or is it that they think it takes away from any egg hunt that they do on the weekend?

Or is it that they like it, but are accustomed to only lodging complaints, and nothing positive? (Pretty sure they aren't parenting like that!)

Any insight?

I have one question, was the Spring Hunt for you, the kids or the parents?

[My3cents]

... to see whether they would prefer that I discontinue doing our Spring Hunt.

Not only were there no positive comments from parents about the fun and fun things the kids brought home, but several complained that they were "wild" and "all sugared up". (They each ate one tiny piece of candy, and brought home two tiny pieces.)

Why did I go to the trouble and expense? The kids loved it, but if the parents don't...should I still do it?

Or is it that they think it takes away from any egg hunt that they do on the weekend?

Or is it that they like it, but are accustomed to only lodging complaints, and nothing positive? (Pretty sure they aren't parenting like that!)

Any insight?

Run your program the way you want to run it and don't worry about praise from the parents. I always try to remember when they pick up the kiddo's they are tired too, from a long work week/day. Do what you want for them for the right reasons. I wouldn't poll them, I would just do my own thing.

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[MissAnn]

... to see whether they would prefer that I discontinue doing our Spring Hunt.

Not only were there no positive comments from parents about the fun and fun things the kids brought home, but several complained that they were "wild" and "all sugared up". (They each ate one tiny piece of candy, and brought home two tiny pieces.)

Why did I go to the trouble and expense? The kids loved it, but if the parents don't...should I still do it?

Or is it that they think it takes away from any egg hunt that they do on the weekend?

Or is it that they like it, but are accustomed to only lodging complaints, and nothing positive? (Pretty sure they aren't parenting like that!)

Any insight?

I'm with you! I'd just like to hear a thank you. I usually have parent bring in a dozen eggs. I didn't ask for it this year. It cost a ton! A thank you would have been nice.

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I have one question, was the Spring Hunt for you, the kids or the parents?

The kids. Well, me, a little bit But the parents are the client, kwim?
If it's not something that they value, it changes how I think about it.

[Annalee]

... to see whether they would prefer that I discontinue doing our Spring Hunt.

Not only were there no positive comments from parents about the fun and fun things the kids brought home, but several complained that they were "wild" and "all sugared up". (They each ate one tiny piece of candy, and brought home two tiny pieces.)

Why did I go to the trouble and expense? The kids loved it, but if the parents don't...should I still do it?

Or is it that they think it takes away from any egg hunt that they do on the weekend?

Or is it that they like it, but are accustomed to only lodging complaints, and nothing positive? (Pretty sure they aren't parenting like that!)

Any insight?

My daddy told me a longgggg time ago when I began my own daycare that if I was going to wait around for others to make me "happy", I was in the wrong business...to always give it 100% and not let anyone take my happiness because happiness is a choice. He passed away 12 years ago, but every time I start to feel like you are feeling it seems that saying pops into my head. Some parents, like many persons in society in general, are just geared to the negative. Run your daycare like YOU want to run it....If it works for you and the children in your care....I say go for it!

[Second Home]

I would not poll the parents . I just do what I feel is right for my dck , they have fun and I enjoy watching them hunt for their eggs / prizes . I don't let them have any candy here , they have to wait until they get home , then there are no hyped up on suger complaints.

[SignMeUp]

I hear you, but I'm not waiting around for them to make me happy. I'm just trying to figure out if there's anything I'm missing because I'm working on deciding if this is a part of my program that I want to continue.

[Second Home]

The kids. Well, me, a little bit But the parents are the client, kwim?
If it's not something that they value, it changes how I think about it.

But I am sure the kids value it and they will remember the fun they had during your hunt. That is what is important.

[cheerfuldom]

I would do the activity during daycare hours with no mandatory parental involvement, no parental permission or opinions necessary.

[KidGrind]

The kids. Well, me, a little bit But the parents are the client, kwim?
If it's not something that they value, it changes how I think about it.

I know what you are typing. They’re our clients based on a group care situation not a nanny situation. As a group care owner, it’s your call. What parents value can greatly differ!

If the kids enjoyed it and you did too, I’d keep doing it!

[Blackcat31]

Next time you have anything planned involving treats, sugary food and holiday themed activities, send a note home with the parents stating the day and time of the event.

Put a statement on the bottom saying that NO child will be excluded from the activity but if a parent should wish that their child not participate, they can either stay home that day or you can hire an assistant (for that day only...unless you regularly have one) to tend to their child while the others join in the reindeer games.

I always try to give parents an out.

[jenn]

Do what YOU want to do. If you enjoy it and the kids enjoy it, do it.
I would not poll the parents. If they don't want their kid to participate, they can keep them home next time.
I don't do an egg hunt anymore (or crafts that go home). I don't enjoy the expense, the getting ready, the clean up, the parent lack of response,...and I know that my DCKs have other opportunities to hunt for eggs.

[kitykids3]

I used to do it for me, now I do it for the kids (which is also kind of for me) and QRS. I have an Easter Party and a Christmas Party each year. Some come and some don't and they are short, less than 2 hours. This year parents seem less grateful, but it's the smiles on the kids faces having fun that is the reason I keep doing them. I personally wouldn't poll, but that is because I am going to do them anyways, but rather than poll, maybe just some informal conversation would give you a better idea. But if you stop doing it, in upcoming years you may get clients that would love that kind of stuff. Do what you want for YOU.

[MotherNature]

I wouldn't poll them either. They'll just say to keep it, but never thank you. I wouldn't do the elaborate activities, personally, but if you love to do that w/ the kids, great-keep on doing it then. Maybe don't give candy out though..