I Can't Shake My Hateful Mood :(

[Tdhmom]

I think I need a time out. I'm in a horrible mood and have been since yesterday. My 5 yr old dctwins are back to being out of control, the dcb won't listen AGAIN! His twin sister is back to being violent (threw my daughter against the wall this am during clean up and pushed her off the swing set last week). 3 yr old dcb won't quit tattling every 15 min. The neighbor girl (4yr old) keeps sneaking over every time we're outside.

I think I'm calling a 'me' evening. Even my husband is driving bonkers

[lovemykidstoo]

Same here. I don't know if it's because of the long winter or what. I'm just so easily irritated. Then after I get done working and I will maybe go upstairs to goof off on the computer and my husband yells up the stairs, "where are ya"! OMG. Think I'm gonna kill him

[MotherNature]

4 yo? Where's her parent(s)? They looking for free childcare?

[Tdhmom]

Yes they are!!!! I'm about to text mom "every time she crosses the driveway it's $20" Hahahaha I bet she'll stop real quick!!!

And my husband does the same thing!!! I haven't been out of his sight for a month he's driving me crazy!!! I just want to be left alone for a minute! I'm not asking for a lot

[My3cents]

I think I need a time out. I'm in a horrible mood and have been since yesterday. My 5 yr old dctwins are back to being out of control, the dcb won't listen AGAIN! His twin sister is back to being violent (threw my daughter against the wall this am during clean up and pushed her off the swing set last week). 3 yr old dcb won't quit tattling every 15 min. The neighbor girl (4yr old) keeps sneaking over every time we're outside.

I think I'm calling a 'me' evening. Even my husband is driving bonkers

I would tell the girl to go home. Sorry you can't play here your not in my daycare. My rules don't allow it. If she refused I would call Mom...

I think weather does have a lot to do with this- Make sure your being good to you!

I was like this last week for a couple of days. I changed my stinkin thinking and it helped a lot.

[My3cents]

Yes they are!!!! I'm about to text mom "every time she crosses the driveway it's $20" Hahahaha I bet she'll stop real quick!!!

And my husband does the same thing!!! I haven't been out of his sight for a month he's driving me crazy!!! I just want to be left alone for a minute! I'm not asking for a lot

So after work take a few for yourself. Go sit at a coffee shop or meet a friend, or hit your favorite store and just walk around. We take care of others all day long, sometimes we need to pull the reigns and say whoooooa I need to take care of me so I can be even better to others surrounding me in my life. I hit the gym for me time. I also go out with a friend a few nights a week. We don't do much but it gets me out of my work environment. I plan the weekends during the week so I have something to look forward too. Little things. Life is short so finding those little happy moments are a must and important to me. I ain't just about survival... there is more to me then just that and I embrace it- Find your happy triggers

[Tdhmom]

I'm thinking a trip to get a pedi might be in the cards for tonight and just signed up for a couponing class on Sunday. Hoping that will be a new hobby haha

[lovemykidstoo]

One thing that will bring me a bit of calmness is when this weather breaks and I can get out more. We have a 29 foot camper that we store about 1 mile from my house. In the nice months, I go there and sit and read a book. I know it sounds crazy, but the lot is full of campers so it's not like there's anyone there. I tell my husband that I'm going to the mall and I'll go there and sit and read in quiet! I tell my girlfriends that it's my apartment, but my hubby knows nothing hahah! I know that people say just get out of the house, but the last thing I want to do when in a bad mood is go around people in a crowd.

[lovemykidstoo]

I'm thinking a trip to get a pedi might be in the cards for tonight and just signed up for a couponing class on Sunday. Hoping that will be a new hobby haha

I started couponing a month ago and love it! That's where I was last night on the computer upstairs pringing coupons when my husband wanted to know where I was, what I was doing blah blah blah. If you don't have sites that you can go to to look for coupons, let me know. I know of some good ones to print from.

[Tdhmom]

One thing that will bring me a bit of calmness is when this weather breaks and I can get out more. We have a 29 foot camper that we store about 1 mile from my house. In the nice months, I go there and sit and read a book. I know it sounds crazy, but the lot is full of campers so it's not like there's anyone there. I tell my husband that I'm going to the mall and I'll go there and sit and read in quiet! I tell my girlfriends that it's my apartment, but my hubby knows nothing hahah! I know that people say just get out of the house, but the last thing I want to do when in a bad mood is go around people in a crowd.

I love this!!!! I wish I had this!!!! It sounds so relaxing

[llpa]

I hate it when that kind of mood hits me! I don't even like myself I have always had a hard time being good to myself. I will join you in workin on that! Pretty soon you will be able to get the kids out and run them ragged! happyface

[Tdhmom]

I hate it when that kind of mood hits me! I don't even like myself I have always had a hard time being good to myself. I will join you in workin on that! Pretty soon you will be able to get the kids out and run them ragged! happyface

That's why I don't understand my foul mood. It's been beautiful out and we've been outside the whole time. We do our morning stuff and head out and then come in just for lunch and nap.

I think it's the trouble makers that are doing it to me I only have them for 30 more days and it's like they sense it and have been acting out like when I first got them in august :confused: