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I am a normal user on this forum but I wanted to remain anonymous. I was curious if any of you have gone through divorce while doing daycare? This is something I'm considering BUT I have no idea how that would work, this house was his parents so it would go to him, and for me to "move" my daycare I just don't see how to do that. For one I don't think people would allow you to rent knowing you do daycare, and I would NOT be able to buy a house. Just curious.
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I would not assume that because it was his families house that you have no rights.
Do you have children?
Do you have a mortgage?
Was the house given to you after you were married, or was it his prior to your marriage?
If this is something you are seriously considering, I would discuss the issue with a divorce attorney. Depending on the answers to the above you may be entitled to keep the house or he may have to buy you out of his share, which may help you purchase one on your own.
Oh, and yes, I have been through a divorce while doing daycare. I kept the house and all of my clients! Just don't make a big thing of it, and don't share the details with clients. -
I'm renting and doing daycare.Comment
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I also rent a home and do daycare. A friend of mine rents a 3td floor apt and does daycare. Some people don't want a daycare in run in their home. Some are OK with it. My landlord thinks I will make tons of money off of her house and wants a cut of it.
In some ways, it is better to own your own home, but it's OK not to. Moving your license may or may not be easy. Where I live getting a license takes forever and moving a license is easy. As long as we have the application in the DCFS office, we can start in our new home.
Sorry, no advice on the divorce issue or, but I wish you the best and remember anything is possible.Comment
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Thanks everyone, well the house was his parents, it was given to us while we were married and it is titles to both of us, we do not have a mortgage just like a small equity loan for some things we've done. Problem is we both have business's here, I really don't intend on keeping the house from him just because he has no family ect. both his parents are now deceased he grew up here so I really wouldn't want to take that away from him.
I've known a few daycare providers that had a VERY difficult time trying to rent a home to do daycare. One of them basically had to "lie" her way in the other I don't really know what she did. I'd basically have to start all over, chances of me finding something right here in this area would be very hard.
Im hoping we'll be able to work things out, that's my hope and prayer, I think we will but all of this has definetly weighed on my thoughts during all of this.Comment
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Some more threads on Divorce and daycare: https://www.daycare.com/forum/tags.php?tag=divorceComment
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