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  • Candy
    Daycare.com Member
    • Jan 2013
    • 223

    Older Couple Running A Daycare

    I just thought back as to who use watch me when I was younger. There was a older couple(the wife is still living and still doing daycare) who use to do daycare where I live and were unlicensed. If my memory is right there were at least 4 babies at once, six 1-3 year olds, and 4 Sa kids all at one time. And the house wasn't the least bit chaotic. I'm wondering how did they do it? Was it because they were older. Just thinking about watching over 10 kids at once would drive me crazy.
  • Blackcat31
    • Oct 2010
    • 36124

    #2
    Originally posted by Candy
    I just thought back as to who use watch me when I was younger. There was a older couple(the wife is still living and still doing daycare) who use to do daycare where I live and were unlicensed. If my memory is right there were at least 4 babies at once, six 1-3 year olds, and 4 Sa kids all at one time. And the house wasn't the least bit chaotic. I'm wondering how did they do it? Was it because they were older. Just thinking about watching over 10 kids at once would drive me crazy.
    I have 12 kids under age 6 daily.

    It's easy and simple if you have a routine and consistency.

    I interview and enroll on a strict basis and will NOT take a family that I don't feel is the right fit for ANY amount of money.

    When I have days with less kids, it is actually harder as the choices for playmates is less so the kids seem to have more conflict.

    ....and no, other than my DH who comes in and helps with lunch time I do not have a daily assistant/helper.

    Not sure if I would be considered "older" though or not.

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    • butterfly
      Daycare.com Member
      • Nov 2012
      • 1627

      #3
      simplier times helps I think. Kids today seem to need constant interaction or tech time with Ipods and tablets.

      I had an old lady watch me when I was a kid too. We played outside most of the day. I don't even remember having a toy room there. ::

      I do remember watching the price is right during lunch. That was the extent of our TV watching too.

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      • Annalee
        Daycare.com Member
        • Jul 2012
        • 5864

        #4
        Originally posted by Blackcat31
        I have 12 kids under age 6 daily.

        It's easy and simple if you have a routine and consistency.

        I interview and enroll on a strict basis and will NOT take a family that I don't feel is the right fit for ANY amount of money.

        BUT it took me 10 yrs to learn this....the past 10 plus have been AWESOME!!!! happyface

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        • Heidi
          Daycare.com Member
          • Sep 2011
          • 7121

          #5
          I was going to say, too, that it's because kids are different than we were.

          We were not entertained by others, and we were expected to behave. Our feelings and rights weren't nearly as important as those of the adult's around us. We were loved, but no one was afraid to set limits like "get off the couch if you can't sit nicely", or "keep your hands OFF of Mrs. S's whatever".

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          • Candy
            Daycare.com Member
            • Jan 2013
            • 223

            #6
            Originally posted by butterfly
            simplier times helps I think. Kids today seem to need constant interaction or tech time with Ipods and tablets.

            I had an old lady watch me when I was a kid too. We played outside most of the day. I don't even remember having a toy room there. ::

            I do remember watching the price is right during lunch. That was the extent of our TV watching too.
            We didn't have a toy room either we were just in one big room there was a tv but we only watched it at lunch and in the mornings. I have no idea what we did the rest of the time. Also there was so less disrespect then.

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            • daycarediva
              Daycare.com Member
              • Jul 2012
              • 11698

              #7
              Originally posted by butterfly
              simplier times helps I think. Kids today seem to need constant interaction or tech time with Ipods and tablets.

              I had an old lady watch me when I was a kid too. We played outside most of the day. I don't even remember having a toy room there. ::

              I do remember watching the price is right during lunch. That was the extent of our TV watching too.
              Originally posted by Heidi
              I was going to say, too, that it's because kids are different than we were.

              We were not entertained by others, and we were expected to behave. Our feelings and rights weren't nearly as important as those of the adult's around us. We were loved, but no one was afraid to set limits like "get off the couch if you can't sit nicely", or "keep your hands OFF of Mrs. S's whatever".



              the good old days. Outside in the backyard drinking water out of the hose, coming in for lunch when called, or being tossed sandwiches and apples through the window, eating veggies right out of my sitters garden. We NEVER would have behaved the way kids do now.

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              • Heidi
                Daycare.com Member
                • Sep 2011
                • 7121

                #8
                Originally posted by daycarediva


                the good old days. Outside in the backyard drinking water out of the hose, coming in for lunch when called, or being tossed sandwiches and apples through the window, eating veggies right out of my sitters garden. We NEVER would have behaved the way kids do now.
                The good old days:

                -When we'd play tag in the dark in the summer until way past 10:00.
                -When we'd run around catching fire flies when we weren't playing tag.
                -When vacation was throwing us in the back of the station wagon with a bag of sandwiches, M&M's, and a pile of blankets and pillows, then off we'd go. Dad would chain-smoke along the way, but was kind enough to keep his window open.
                -When my parents would take us with them to house parties. All the kids in one room, jumping on a bed. Hey, it's not a party until someone has a bloody nose!
                -When some lady pushed my dad in the pool for getting too...ah...flirty with her.
                -When getting a new 10-speed was the highlight of my sister's middle school years.
                -When we made toilet paper holders to decorate the bathroom at girl scouts.
                -When we'd go door-to-door selling homemade crafts, or have a lemonade stand. Young entrepenuers, we were!
                -When our parents would go out at night, and leave us at home ALONE. We were 4 and 5 years old. Yeah..it's was 1968, and apparently, that was acceptable. Hey, we were sleeping anyway.


                We should start a new thread, eh?

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                • blandino
                  Daycare.com member
                  • Sep 2012
                  • 1613

                  #9
                  Originally posted by Blackcat31
                  I have 12 kids under age 6 daily.

                  It's easy and simple if you have a routine and consistency.

                  I interview and enroll on a strict basis and will NOT take a family that I don't feel is the right fit for ANY amount of money.

                  When I have days with less kids, it is actually harder as the choices for playmates is less so the kids seem to have more conflict.

                  ....and no, other than my DH who comes in and helps with lunch time I do not have a daily assistant/helper.

                  Not sure if I would be considered "older" though or not.
                  THIS !! We have 12 daily, and our oldest is 3.5. LOTS & LOTS of structure and consistency. We have a routine that keeps things under control.

                  Now, we do have two adults for the 12 children, so that licensing req. is a little different. But none the less, it is a tight ship, that sails rather smoothly.

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                  • daycare
                    Advanced Daycare.com *********
                    • Feb 2011
                    • 16259

                    #10
                    Originally posted by Blackcat31
                    I have 12 kids under age 6 daily.

                    It's easy and simple if you have a routine and consistency.

                    I interview and enroll on a strict basis and will NOT take a family that I don't feel is the right fit for ANY amount of money.

                    When I have days with less kids, it is actually harder as the choices for playmates is less so the kids seem to have more conflict.

                    ....and no, other than my DH who comes in and helps with lunch time I do not have a daily assistant/helper.

                    Not sure if I would be considered "older" though or not.
                    oh please sister you are so far from old. I saw pics of you. you look like your 25!!

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                    • Candy
                      Daycare.com Member
                      • Jan 2013
                      • 223

                      #11
                      I think parents had better attitudes then also. Back then it was ok to get spanked by the daycare provider cause parent knew there kid probably did whatever it was.

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                      • Maria2013
                        Daycare.com Member
                        • Aug 2013
                        • 1026

                        #12
                        Originally posted by Blackcat31
                        I have 12 kids under age 6 daily.

                        It's easy and simple if you have a routine and consistency.

                        I interview and enroll on a strict basis and will NOT take a family that I don't feel is the right fit for ANY amount of money.

                        When I have days with less kids, it is actually harder as the choices for playmates is less so the kids seem to have more conflict.

                        ....and no, other than my DH who comes in and helps with lunch time I do not have a daily assistant/helper.

                        Not sure if I would be considered "older" though or not.
                        pretty much what she said

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                        • My3cents
                          Daycare.com Member
                          • Jan 2012
                          • 3387

                          #13
                          Originally posted by Blackcat31
                          I have 12 kids under age 6 daily.

                          It's easy and simple if you have a routine and consistency.

                          I interview and enroll on a strict basis and will NOT take a family that I don't feel is the right fit for ANY amount of money.

                          When I have days with less kids, it is actually harder as the choices for playmates is less so the kids seem to have more conflict.

                          ....and no, other than my DH who comes in and helps with lunch time I do not have a daily assistant/helper.

                          Not sure if I would be considered "older" though or not.
                          Not seeing how we are the same age~
                          lets not be old until we are old
                          lovethis

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