9 YO DD Has Developed An Imaginary Friend...

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    9 YO DD Has Developed An Imaginary Friend...

    DD who is 9 1/2 years old recently began talking to herself. At first I found the behavior strange but didn't say much as I will be the first to admit that my DD is a little odd sometimes, bless her heart.

    Last night I found her whispering as though someone was sitting next to her and I said -

    ****** who are you talking to???

    She said she was talking to her friend Charlotte.....??? Of course upon further investigation I came to the realization that Charlotte was her imaginary friend and the one she has been making a bed for each night beside her own bed (I thought she was making it so the dog wouldn't sleep on her bed)

    This is so strange for her age. She does have anxiety disorder but has been doing so much better. What are your thoughts on this? Should I just let it play itself out and hope it goes away or seek some help? I have started reading all the books she has been reading to see if there is mention of something like this in there and maybe she is just role playing from a story she read.......I am seriously at a loss.
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    If it was new, it might have me wondering if something new was going on in her life, and if it was being used as a coping skill or way to sort through something challenging for her. My girl is eight and still has several imaginary friends. They have changed over the years, but they have been around since she was almost 2. Does not concern me in the slightest that she is a daydreaming imaginative child. It is amusing to watch her out the window and watch her hand gestures flailing about, and her lips going a mile a minute and not another soul in sight. I'm sure it entertains the neighbors to. I figure she is happy, and it is just a part of who she is.

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    • Heidi
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      • Sep 2011
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      For what it's worth, I found this.



      Not sure how much you trust Wikipedia, but if it's on there, at least you know someone else has asked the question, which in itself means she's not alone.

      I wouldn't worry too much unless there's other red flags.

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