So last night my neighbor comes over to invite me to her child's birthday after just inviting the other neighbors. She tells me that the other neighbor (I care for her two kids) told her that her daughter TELLS HER EVERYTHING and that she says that my husband and I fight all the time and worse than what her previously relationship was. This is coming from a woman who had ridiculous screaming fights in her lawn, called the cops on several occasions and whose children would run to the other neighbors house when this was happening.
At best all we ever do is bicker...somewhat playfully or at best annoyingly with eacgother. My husband sleeps all day as he works night and the girl is only part time before or after school. So even the time we are supposedly doing all this fighting would have to be very limited.
The way they follow me around the house asking me what I'm doing has made me wonder in the past if she doesn't pump them for my every move. And I'm guessing saying this is just a way for her to feel better about her life because why would you continue to send your child if you thought this was true?
So now I feel really uncomfortable having a spy in my home...not a very good one but nonetheless. Would you term? My husband says we should just be over the top lovey dovey and 'take the high road'.
At best all we ever do is bicker...somewhat playfully or at best annoyingly with eacgother. My husband sleeps all day as he works night and the girl is only part time before or after school. So even the time we are supposedly doing all this fighting would have to be very limited.
The way they follow me around the house asking me what I'm doing has made me wonder in the past if she doesn't pump them for my every move. And I'm guessing saying this is just a way for her to feel better about her life because why would you continue to send your child if you thought this was true?
So now I feel really uncomfortable having a spy in my home...not a very good one but nonetheless. Would you term? My husband says we should just be over the top lovey dovey and 'take the high road'.
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