A family that I provide care for has always been respectful in notifying me & letting me know about what time they will pick up. They have NEVER picked up late. Their schedule does change though in 8-9 week increments because mom is in nursing school & also works part-time when she is able so dependent on her schedule for school we change the shedule every 9 weeks or so. However, a few things have been bothering me & I was wondering how you would address them. Our latest pick-up time for them is 4:30 & about 99% of the time they are here way before that. But there have been instances where she let me know ahead of time (days in advance) she would drop off late (not until 9:15, normal drop off is 7:00-7:30) & then I was lenient & allowed them to pick up closer to 5:00 (because mom's clinicals were until 7:00 pm - so dad had to pick up). Anyway, I did not see it as too problematic but today is mom's study day & she typically picks up at 3:30 pm. She told me ahead of time that instead of studying today she was going shopping/lunch with a friend. No big deal, I am fine with it. She dropped off at normal time (7:30) & said she would pick up around 3:15-3:30. In the interim (about 1 hr ago) dad calls me to say mom will now not be able to pick up at 3:30 so he will now pick up at 5:00. I agreed half-heartedly but what would be the appropriate way to respond that since you are giving me such late notice you need to pick up by 4:30. How can I word that nicely in the future without sounding like a witch?
If she was at school or work I would understand but asking for a late pick up b/c she is out with her friend doesn't bring out the leniency queen in me!


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