Terrible 3's? Yes!

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  • melilley
    Daycare.com Member
    • Oct 2012
    • 5155

    Terrible 3's? Yes!

    I came across this article/blog and thought I would share. It's not about the terrible two's, but the terrible 3's and also how J is an angel at school, but a completely different person at home, just like we talk about! I admit the 3's are my least favorite age. At least I'm not alone.....

    Every day, I suit up for battle. It's not just the usual twice-a-day stuff like "I don't wanna go" or "I don't wanna eat that for breakfast." I'm talking about something every hour. Screaming, pushing, punching, biting, spitting, back-talking, karate kicks and testicle head butts. All in a day's work.


    Warning: There are a few swear words in the blog.
  • lovemykidstoo
    Daycare.com Member
    • Aug 2012
    • 4740

    #2
    I've always said that it's the "terrible two's" and the "God awful 3's". Three's are way worse IMO.

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    • melilley
      Daycare.com Member
      • Oct 2012
      • 5155

      #3
      Originally posted by lovemykidstoo
      I've always said that it's the "terrible two's" and the "God awful 3's". Three's are way worse IMO.
      I think 3's are too! I worked in 3 different centers in the past and at every one, no one wanted to work in the 3's room! Well, every once in a while we came across someone that wanted to, but not often.

      Once I got stuck in the 3 yo room and they made me cry! I had 10 to myself. The toilet over flowed, they wouldn't nap, wouldn't clean up, the list goes on a and on!

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      • Laurel
        Daycare.com Member
        • Mar 2013
        • 3218

        #4
        Originally posted by melilley
        I came across this article/blog and thought I would share. It's not about the terrible two's, but the terrible 3's and also how J is an angel at school, but a completely different person at home, just like we talk about! I admit the 3's are my least favorite age. At least I'm not alone.....

        Every day, I suit up for battle. It's not just the usual twice-a-day stuff like "I don't wanna go" or "I don't wanna eat that for breakfast." I'm talking about something every hour. Screaming, pushing, punching, biting, spitting, back-talking, karate kicks and testicle head butts. All in a day's work.


        Warning: There are a few swear words in the blog.
        Great! I just sent this to my daughter whose son I watch. Wow, he is a piece of work lately!!!

        Laurel

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        • Naptime yet?
          Daycare.com Member
          • Dec 2013
          • 443

          #5
          This reminds me of another blogger:

          สล็อตเว็บตรง อันดับ 1 ฝากถอนง่ายผ่าน True Wallet ไม่มีขั้นต่ำ สะดวก รวดเร็ว ปลอดภัย เล่นได้ตลอด 24 ชั่วโมง พร้อมโปรโมชั่นพิเศษมากมาย


          Funny stuff
          Last edited by Naptime yet?; 01-09-2014, 07:05 PM. Reason: Link copied after all (but does it work?)

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          • Sunshine74
            Daycare.com Member
            • Oct 2012
            • 546

            #6
            I have the 2's and we can always tell when they are close to 3 (and ready to move up to the next room) because their behavior does tend to get worse.

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            • heyhun77
              Advanced Daycare.com Member
              • Jan 2011
              • 370

              #7
              When I closed my home daycare for 18 months I was a 3's teacher. I LOVED it. Yes it's challenging but it's also so rewarding. 3's are a super tough age because they aren't toddlers anymore but they aren't really preschoolers yet. They are still working on potty training (most are dry but still working on the fact that they have to go potty while playing their favorite activity and have to stop playing to go potty), they are able to do more things for themselves but usually need lots of encouragement, they are usually hungry for adventure but still looking for reassurance from their parents that it's okay to be independant.

              What I've found most about 3's is that the parents who don't hover and do everything for their child have children who are better adjusted and able to get through that time better. The parents who hover and do things for their children without making them try are the kids who were the toughest challenges.

              That being said, I've been on both sides of this being a daycare provider and a parent. The parent side isn't super fun no matter how much encouragement you give the kids and how many times you use a calm voice when things get tense. You can only be restrained so long when your child refuses to put on their shoes. :-)

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              • thetoddlerwhisper
                Daycare.com Member
                • Oct 2013
                • 394

                #8
                Originally posted by Sunshine74
                I have the 2's and we can always tell when they are close to 3 (and ready to move up to the next room) because their behavior does tend to get worse.
                oh and dont they! i love my 2s but a couple of my almost 3s are driving me up the walls!!!

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                • JoseyJo
                  Group DCP in Kansas
                  • Apr 2013
                  • 964

                  #9
                  3's are my favorite age Old enough to reason with and too young to be too inventive with "reasoning" back

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                  • thetoddlerwhisper
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Oct 2013
                    • 394

                    #10
                    Originally posted by JoseyJo
                    3's are my favorite age Old enough to reason with and too young to be too inventive with "reasoning" back
                    wanna trade groups some of my 2s are trying to reason back and have developed excuses for things

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