Did it. Termed My First Family...

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  • sahm2three
    Daycare.com Member
    • Apr 2010
    • 1104

    Did it. Termed My First Family...

    I have mixed emotions. I know I did the right thing. But I just still feel bad. KWIM? It just was a bad situation. Between the dcb with ODD/ADD and now his little 10 mo brother not sleeping and being a real handful, I think I have gone above and beyond. But I still feel bad.....
  • Crystal
    Advanced Daycare.com Member
    • Dec 2009
    • 4002

    #2
    Don't feel bad. You did what you needed to do. The child was struggling, you were stressed, it effects EVERYONE, especially the other children in care.

    I do know the mixed emotion thing though......it will pass

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    • DanceMom
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • Mar 2010
      • 353

      #3
      Originally posted by sahm2three
      I have mixed emotions. I know I did the right thing. But I just still feel bad. KWIM? It just was a bad situation. Between the dcb with ODD/ADD and now his little 10 mo brother not sleeping and being a real handful, I think I have gone above and beyond. But I still feel bad.....
      Dont feel bad - you did what is best for YOU.

      How did the family react ?

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      • sahm2three
        Daycare.com Member
        • Apr 2010
        • 1104

        #4
        Originally posted by DanceMom
        Dont feel bad - you did what is best for YOU.

        How did the family react ?
        Mom was a bit snarky. But went better than it could have. She has a lot going on in her life, so I do feel bad for her. But I can't sacrifice myself for someone who isn't my family, right? So it is done. Just have to get thru this week...

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        • missnikki
          Advanced Daycare.com Member
          • Mar 2010
          • 1033

          #5
          The only reason you should feel guilty is if you didn't try everything first. It sounds like you did, so leave the guilt to the responsible party.

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