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  • Naptime yet?
    Daycare.com Member
    • Dec 2013
    • 443

    One of My Favorite Lines....

    I love when parents say to me "is it ok if I keep my child home today?", or apologize for not bringing them to dc. Or they think about keeping them home, then start fishing for a reason from me as to why they should bring them. Crazy.
  • Play Care
    Daycare.com Member
    • Dec 2012
    • 6642

    #2
    Originally posted by Naptime yet?
    I love when parents say to me "is it ok if I keep my child home today?", or apologize for not bringing them to dc. Or they think about keeping them home, then start fishing for a reason from me as to why they should bring them. Crazy.
    I don't have that, but I do have parents call and say things like "I'll make your day easier by keeping sick DCK at home," as if they are doing me a favor, rather then something they are contractually obligated to do. :confused: Also, it's not as if one child being out makes a ton of difference - I'll still have NINE other children here. Now when it's my challenging sibling set, sure But in general it's not as if one child being out = easy day.

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    • cheerfuldom
      Advanced Daycare.com Member
      • Dec 2010
      • 7413

      #3
      ha, like when the parents talk about your "day off" when they keep their child home and forget that you have 7 others. One more does not make a difference after about 4 or 5.

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      • Kimskiddos
        Daycare.com Member
        • Oct 2013
        • 420

        #4
        I do have a family that ask permission to keep their child home too!
        I always say of course, it's nice for the child to have a break day.

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        • daycarediva
          Daycare.com Member
          • Jul 2012
          • 11698

          #5
          Originally posted by cheerfuldom
          ha, like when the parents talk about your "day off" when they keep their child home and forget that you have 7 others. One more does not make a difference after about 4 or 5.
          Seriously. I had a parent text me Friday "Looks like it will be an easy day for you. Keeping C home."

          Easy? 5 other kids under 5, 1 SA and my own 4 SA. Not to mention, her child is the easiest. LOL! ::

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          • Blackcat31
            • Oct 2010
            • 36124

            #6
            My oddball text this morning said:

            "Hi, the kids and I aren't feeling well. I'm sure it is just a really bad cold but I wanted to check with you first. They say they still want to come so... "


            Um, ok....check with me about what exactly?? :confused:

            I just replied "Well, you know my illness policy fairly well. It's YOUR call."

            I think that this particular mom just wanted my permission to stay home too but I don't allow parents to put me in that position. If you KNOW your kids are sick, keep them home.

            It has NOTHING to do with me.

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            • Heidi
              Daycare.com Member
              • Sep 2011
              • 7121

              #7
              Originally posted by Blackcat31
              My oddball text this morning said:

              "Hi, the kids and I aren't feeling well. I'm sure it is just a really bad cold but I wanted to check with you first. They say they still want to come so... "


              Um, ok....check with me about what exactly?? :confused:

              I just replied "Well, you know my illness policy fairly well. It's YOUR call."

              I think that this particular mom just wanted my permission to stay home too but I don't allow parents to put me in that position. If you KNOW your kids are sick, keep them home.

              It has NOTHING to do with me.
              I do have one mom who would feel very guilty about missing work. She'd pretty much beg me to put my foot down and say "no, he's too sick to come". Then they can call me the bad guy to work. Just one of the many services I offer....::

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              • Blackcat31
                • Oct 2010
                • 36124

                #8
                Originally posted by Heidi
                I do have one mom who would feel very guilty about missing work. She'd pretty much beg me to put my foot down and say "no, he's too sick to come". Then they can call me the bad guy to work. Just one of the many services I offer....::
                I'd assume that were the case but this mom is a college student and in her second text, let on that she just wanted to sleep without having to worry about them.

                Yeah, well...YOUR sick kids =YOUR responsibility.

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                • lflick
                  New Daycare.com Member
                  • Apr 2013
                  • 207

                  #9
                  I have gotten this a few times.... I almost wonder if it is perhaps the parent thinks if they ask in this manner we will give them a break on tuition. The last time I was asked I responded, "It is completely your decision whether you want to bring them the 3 days they are enrolled for as the tuition paid covers up to 3." Said family did attend all days that week following that reply and I have since not been asked.

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                  • itlw8
                    Daycare.com Member
                    • Jan 2012
                    • 2199

                    #10
                    well when certain kids are gone my days IS MUCH EASIER and their parents know that. heck the child is a handful. Too mad my handful is my dgs. LOL

                    Normally may parents do not ask if it is ok to stay home except at this time of year when the kids are making presents for their parents. They do not want them to miss out if the child is well.
                    It:: will wait

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                    • Hunni Bee
                      False Sense Of Authority
                      • Feb 2011
                      • 2397

                      #11
                      Originally posted by Blackcat31
                      My oddball text this morning said:

                      "Hi, the kids and I aren't feeling well. I'm sure it is just a really bad cold but I wanted to check with you first. They say they still want to come so... "


                      Um, ok....check with me about what exactly?? :confused:

                      I just replied "Well, you know my illness policy fairly well. It's YOUR call."

                      I think that this particular mom just wanted my permission to stay home too but I don't allow parents to put me in that position. If you KNOW your kids are sick, keep them home.

                      It has NOTHING to do with me.
                      Sounds like she wanted your permission to NOT keep him home.

                      "I know your illness policy and I know they're sick, but they WANT to come..."

                      Oh please.

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