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This morning I had an overly demanding DCM tell me yet again what she needs me to do for her DD and I just lost it!
Yesterday she asked me if she could bring her DD here on Friday because we are doing a special activity although her DD only comes 3 days a week and Friday is not one of those days (DCG is really hard to deal with and aggressive to boot!) She said since she missed a day last week she wants to replace it since she paid me already....okay fine, didn't argue with her. Let it slide like most of the other things.
Then this morning she tells me straight out - No more Pulls Ups at nap, we are training her to not pee in her bed anymore.
Excuse me! DCG pees in her Pull up every single day. She is not ready. I am not cleaning her and her bed up everyday. I have other kids to take care of.
I am so sick of this DCM telling me how it is going to be, and not just her but a lot of DCPS telling me how to run my DC all the time and not following my policies.
I just bursted out with - No I will not put her to bed in underwear until she is dry for at least 2 weeks. If you no longer want to provide pull ups for her then you know where the door is. I know she is the only child in your home but here she is one of many and the needs of others need to be considered here as well.
YES!!!! happyface I finally said exactly what I felt to a DCP after 10 years in the industry!!
(Keep in mind this is a very difficult DCM and she is constantly telling me how to care for her DD like I haven't raised 3 of my own or been in the daycare industry for over 10 years! This is the DCM who came into my home the first day and set the place up just the way she wanted it to be for her DD.)
Yesterday she asked me if she could bring her DD here on Friday because we are doing a special activity although her DD only comes 3 days a week and Friday is not one of those days (DCG is really hard to deal with and aggressive to boot!) She said since she missed a day last week she wants to replace it since she paid me already....okay fine, didn't argue with her. Let it slide like most of the other things.
Then this morning she tells me straight out - No more Pulls Ups at nap, we are training her to not pee in her bed anymore.
Excuse me! DCG pees in her Pull up every single day. She is not ready. I am not cleaning her and her bed up everyday. I have other kids to take care of.
I am so sick of this DCM telling me how it is going to be, and not just her but a lot of DCPS telling me how to run my DC all the time and not following my policies.
I just bursted out with - No I will not put her to bed in underwear until she is dry for at least 2 weeks. If you no longer want to provide pull ups for her then you know where the door is. I know she is the only child in your home but here she is one of many and the needs of others need to be considered here as well.
YES!!!! happyface I finally said exactly what I felt to a DCP after 10 years in the industry!!
(Keep in mind this is a very difficult DCM and she is constantly telling me how to care for her DD like I haven't raised 3 of my own or been in the daycare industry for over 10 years! This is the DCM who came into my home the first day and set the place up just the way she wanted it to be for her DD.)
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